19 Unexpected Bachelorette Party Activities

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You’ve booked the hotel, picked a theme, and ordered your outfits. Now comes the best part: Planning what you’ll actually do together during the bride’s bachelorette party. While there’s nothing wrong with a classic night out, modern brides and their groups are increasingly skipping the crowded bar scene in favor of activities that feel more thoughtful, memorable, and true to their personalities. Instead of stereotypical itineraries, many modern groups are leaning into curated weekends that reflect the bride’s personality and give everyone time to connect, says Abbie Clinton, the founder and CEO of Got Your Bash. “We’re seeing a shift toward celebrations that are aesthetic and Instagrammable—but also let [the group] chill, bond, and not be hungover for 72 hours,” she adds.

Meet the Expert

Abbie Clinton is the founder and CEO of Got Your Bash, a full-service event-planning company specializing in curated bachelorette parties and bridal celebrations.
Alanna Scott is the CEO of Bride Tribe Events, a Florida-based bachelorette-party planning company.
Dr. Terika Haynes is the founder and CEO of Dynamite Travel, an award-winning luxury travel consultancy.
Juliette Ulaga is the CEO of BacheloretteStays, a booking platform specializing in discounted rates and themed group stays.

Juliette Ulaga, the CEO of BacheloretteStays, notes a similar shift: “We’re seeing more brides build in downtime or wellness elements, like IV therapy, smoothie bars, or yoga classes to start the day. They still want the fun—but without the party burnout.” Location and current pop culture phenomenons also play a large role in the chosen theme and activities, says Alanna Scott, the CEO of Bride Tribe Events. From “Last Toast on the Coast” in Tampa Bay to Love Island–style weekends where “a hot new bride has entered the villa” on a Caribbean island, Scott says today’s brides are leaning into personality-packed concepts.

Below, the experts break down 19 of their favorite unique bachelorette party activities to consider for your upcoming getaway. Read on for more.

01 of 19

Take a Cajun and Creole Cooking Class in New Orleans

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If your group loves food (and let’s be honest, who doesn’t?), a hands-on Cajun and Creole cooking class in New Orleans, which can be booked via GetYourGuide, is the perfect way to soak up some culture and spice. You'll learn how to make classics like gumbo, jambalaya, or pralines from a local chef before sitting down together to enjoy the full meal. Bonus: It’s indoors, air-conditioned, and a great way to take a break between nights out on Bourbon Street.

02 of 19

Throw a Luxurious Adult Sleepover

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This isn’t your standard middle school sleepover. Clinton says she once planned a Princess Diaries–style adult sleepover that was so beloved, the bride called it her favorite part of the weekend. Think: matching pajamas, espresso martinis, a backyard bounce house, and a Pinterest-worthy snack setup. When the group was ready to wind down, they cozied up for a movie projected on the wall with fuzzy blankets and candles. It’s low-key in the best way—and ideal for groups who want quality time that doesn’t involve barhopping or blisters.

03 of 19

Go Zip-Lining Through the Trees

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If the bride's ideal weekend includes an adrenaline rush, zip-lining might be the perfect surprise. Dr. Terika Haynes, the founder and CEO of Dynamite Travel, says thrill-seeking activities are a major trend right now—and zip-lining is one of the most requested. Whether you're soaring through jungle canopies in Costa Rica or flying above fall foliage in the mountains, this activity is equal parts scenic and scream-worthy. It's also a great bonding moment, especially for the friend who swears she’s afraid of heights until she does it twice. Pack your GoPro and prepare for some top-tier action shots.

04 of 19

Rent Jet Skis for a High-Speed Beach Day

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Beach days are a bachelorette staple, but jet skis are a fun way to take things up a notch. Haynes says she’s noticed more groups skipping the sunbathing in favor of activities with a bit more edge. Whether you’re racing across turquoise waves or simply striking a Baywatch-worthy pose, jet skis add a spark of energy to any itinerary. It’s the perfect pick for brides who love the water but want something more unforgettable than just lounging in a cabana. (Though we fully support a good cabana moment, too.)

05 of 19

Learn to Line Dance in Nashville

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You don’t need to be a country fan to love the absolute chaos of learning a choreographed routine with your crew. In a guided line-dancing class, booked via GetYourGuide, a pro instructor walks you through the steps to popular routines—before capturing it on video so that you can relive it (or post it) later. It’s energetic, lighthearted, and way more memorable than just wandering around Broadway in matching boots. This activity is ideal for groups who want a little structured fun before heading out for the night.

06 of 19

Book an ATV Excursion

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Haynes says ATV excursions have become one of the most unexpected (and unforgettable) additions to her clients’ itineraries. Tour operators often offer group rides through beaches, forests, deserts, or even vineyards, so you can tailor the terrain to your destination. Ulaga agrees, noting that ATV tours in places like Scottsdale and Palm Springs have become surprisingly popular for bachelorette parties.

07 of 19

Take a Pasta-Making Class

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There’s something undeniably fun—and very on theme—about learning to make pasta from scratch alongside your favorite people. It’s the perfect pre-dinner activity: a little flour, a lot of laughter, and a very satisfying meal at the end. Bonus points if someone in the group has a surprise knack for rolling gnocchi.

08 of 19

Book an At-Home Hibachi Chef

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According to Scott, one of the most unexpectedly fun add-ons to a bachelorette trip is an at-home hibachi dinner. “It’s much more affordable than a private chef, but you still get the meal made at your house,” she says. The pro brings all the supplies, puts on a full performance, and serves dinner with flair, fire, and maybe even a sake shot or two. Ulaga says her groups love the balance of fun and convenience that this activity brings. “It still feels celebratory but way more personal—and no one has to worry about transportation or dress codes,” she notes.

09 of 19

Tour a Tea and Wine Garden in Charleston

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If your bride prefers sips over shots, a visit to Charleston’s Wine and Tea Garden (which you can book via GetYourGuide) is the definition of a relaxed—yet luxurious—excursion. Tucked away on Wadmalaw Island, this charming experience includes a guided walk through one of the only working tea gardens in North America, followed by a tasting of local wines. It’s an easy way to slow down, reset, and toast to the bride in a tranquil location. Plus, the dreamy setting is the perfect pick for any group leaning into a Bridgerton- or garden-inspired aesthetic. Parasols optional.

10 of 19

Host a Private Drag Brunch

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Want to surprise the bride and keep things hangover-friendly? A private drag brunch brings the party straight to your home. Clinton recommends hiring a local performer to transform your morning into a full-on spectacle—think dazzling entrances and live lip-synchs. It’s the kind of experience that feels both intimate and over-the-top in the best way. You skip the crowds, keep the Champagne flowing, and get all the content you want without ever leaving the couch.

11 of 19

Elevate Your Pool Party

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Yes, bachelorette pool parties are a classic activity, but the modern version takes them to the next level. “Girls are starting to elevate them with DJs at the house or fun companies who’ll send hunky guys to host party games and bartend,” says Scott. Ulaga agrees that booking private butlers or themed pool hosts is a rising trend: “They run games, serve drinks, and bring that playful energy without anyone needing to leave the house.”

12 of 19

Make Your Own Signature Candle

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Candle-making might not sound like a party activity, but in actuality, it makes for a surprisingly soothing, photo-worthy bonding moment. Clinton says it’s become a go-to for bachelorette groups looking for something hands-on and low-key. With a scent bar and a little guidance, everyone walks away with a custom candle and a core memory that smells incredible. You can book a class at a local studio, or bring the experience to your hotel or home rental with a mobile instructor.

13 of 19

Get Permanent Jewelry Together

Matching tattoos may be a bit extreme for some members of your group, but permanent jewelry is chic, subtle, and sentimental. Clinton says these welded bracelets and anklets are trending with brides who want a low-commitment way to mark the weekend. Plenty of cities have studios that offer group appointments, and some vendors even travel.

14 of 19

Take a Cocktail-Making Class

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Turn a pregame into a full-blown event with a guided cocktail-making class that’s both a party and a hands-on experience. Scott says these have become a favorite of bachelorette groups who want something fun, interactive, and a little elevated. You can book a session at a local bar or bring the mixologist straight to your house. You’ll choose your drinks in advance (spicy margaritas, espresso martinis, or whatever the bride can’t stop ordering), then shake, stir, and sip your way to a new go-to recipe.

15 of 19

Go Horseback Riding

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For a bride who loves the great outdoors, horseback riding offers the perfect offbeat adventure. Whether you’re trotting along the beach, riding into a desert sunset, or exploring something lush and tropical, it’s the ideal blend of peaceful and exhilarating. It also makes for stunning photos (especially if someone packs a cowboy hat for the bride).

16 of 19

Book a Luxury Picnic

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Sometimes, the best bachelorette memories come from slowing down—and doing it in style. Booking a luxury picnic setup gives your group all the aesthetics while requiring little-to-no effort from you. The vendors handle everything: rugs, florals, charcuterie boards, and even place settings. Whether it’s on the beach, in a park, or right in your backyard, this elegant, low-pressure activity feels like a reset and a celebratory moment.

17 of 19

Spend the Day at a Casino

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If luck tends to be on the bride’s side, a casino day may be in order. Dress up for the occasion, sip martinis at noon, and bounce between slot machines and blackjack tables for a full main-character moment. Not into gambling? Most casinos also offer top-tier spas, incredible restaurants, and A-plus people-watching. Whether you’re in Vegas, Atlantic City, or a more under-the-radar destination, it’s an easy way to channel girls’ trip energy—no dance floor required.

18 of 19

Try a Beekeeping Class

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Yes, beekeeping! It’s a surprisingly soothing—and genuinely sweet—group activity that’s perfect for nature-loving brides or anyone who’s craving something unexpected. Some apiary tours let you suit up, get hands-on with the hives, and even jar your own honey to take home. It’s an experience that will help you connect with each other and the environment. Don’t forget to snap a group photo in full beekeeping gear at the end.

19 of 19

Get Your Anger Out in a Rage Room

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If the bride’s more into letting off steam than sipping rosé, a rage room might be exactly what your weekend needs. These sessions let you gear up in safety goggles and break old furniture, electronics, or glassware. They're a growing favorite among bachelorette groups looking for something cathartic and unforgettable. Just be sure to schedule it earlier in the day before you’ve spent hours getting ready for dinner. Whether you're blowing off wedding stress or just want an excuse to swing a bat, this one’s guaranteed to leave a mark—in the best way.

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