We're over the "apathetic groom" stereotype. And after speaking to grooms across the country, we've discovered they clearly feel the same way. In fact, some are throwing themselves into honeymoon research, while others are putting their stamp on the creative details. (Did you hear that, mainstream wedding magazines?) Here's how a modern, enlightened fiancé gets involved—with any luck, your man may be inspired to lend a hand (or even take the reins).