Just as wives fantasize their men would pull new (or improved) bedroom moves, husbands have a list of "wants" when it comes to sex. We went to the source — five husbands — to find out what they really wish you'd do in bed.
"I want my wife to take control more often," says one married man. "There's something really sexy about a woman pushing you down on a bed and telling you just what she's going to do to you and then doing it! I wouldn't have to think — I'd just get to lie back and enjoy myself."
"My wife never talks dirty," laments another married man. "And while I don't need her to get filthy, it would be nice every once in a while if she was just verbal about what she liked or was feeling. That's a huge turn on."
"Don't forget we have a lot of erogenous zones!" says one husband. "I get why my wife immediately head down below, but I wish she didn't forget to pay attention to other parts of my body too. Taking time to kiss her way down my chest and stomach, for example, would be so awesome."
"Get loud," says another. "I feel like my wife holds back because she's afraid of sounding stupid, or maybe disturbing our neighbors. But it's so attractive when a woman really lets lose in bed and moans loudly."
"I would like my wife to be more adventurous in bed," says one more married man. "We wouldn't have to do anything crazy, but it's nice to know your wife is down to try something new. As it is now, I'm afraid to suggest anything that breaks from our routine, and that's no fun!"