Your fantasies might say more about you than you think. Here are some of the most common sex fantasies we have and what they say about your personality.
Keep in mind, we’re all here to have fun. Don’t take yourself too seriously!
You like to give up control to someone you trust, and that’s the only time being out of control is acceptable. The idea of being the center of attention is highly appealing. All focus and eyes on you. You might be a person who enjoys attention and isn’t afraid to admit that.
You have a position of power in real life. You’re used to giving orders and having people do what, when you ask it. You take no prisoners.
And maybe that’s why the idea of being tied up and becoming someone’s sex toy is so attractive. When you have a ton of control in your everyday experiences, the thought of giving up that control for the pleasure of another is hot.
Sex with your partner
You like to keep things laid back and simple. When you’re masturbating and having a fantasy about someone, it’s the person you love. You consider yourself romantic and loving. You think your partner is the sexiest person in the world. And there is nothing wrong with that.
You’re not boring, you just like things the way they are. You’re a content person who is in a happy relationship with someone you find extremely sexy. You go with the flow, are easy going, and are in no way uptight.
You have a rich imagination and it feeds over into your fantasy life. The idea of being in bed with multiple people, whether it’s a gang bang, threesome, or sex party gets you going. You might not explore these avenues of pleasure in your real life, but the idea of doing something taboo and naughty is a turn on.
You’re a pleasure seeker, someone who enjoys having fun and trying new things. You’re adventurous, a traveler, and always seeking out the most exciting things in life. You’re the kind of person who would surprise your partner with a home-cooked meal wearing nothing but a red thong and heels.
You’re a thrill seeker. Erotic pain feels like a new adventure, and you love new adventures. You love being in control, so having your partner submit to your every desire is the hottest thing in the world to you. Spanking them, telling them to get on their knees, maybe even dripping hot wax on them is a turn-on.
You’re not necessarily aggressive all the time, but the idea of causing someone pain when they love to receive it is the epitome of sexiness. You’re a person who values your alluring power over others.
You’re a good person, but the idea of doing something bad is thrilling to you. Perhaps you had a restrained childhood or past and like the idea of doing something possibly unforgivable just to see the consequences. You like to push boundaries.
Having a cheating fantasy doesn’t mean you want to cheat on your partner, it simply means you like the excitement of doing something bad. It’s about getting turned on by things that are objectively hurtful to another person. And despite how negative that might sound, it isn’t.
Maybe you even think about having sex with someone, your partner coming home and being so turned on by you with another person that they get in on the action. In that case, you’re a person who likes to feel wanted.
You’re an experimental person who is very comfortable with themselves and their identity. The idea of exploring genders outside of your own, whether it’s wearing men’s clothing, pegging your partner, or having them engage in behaviors stereotypical of the opposite sex, indicates that you’re a person who enjoys novelty.
The chance to explore the identities of others outside of your usual everyday life is hot and exciting. Power exchanges are a turn on for you. You’re a human being who loves life and adventure, and you’re not afraid to think outside the box.
You’re a private person who enjoys their solitude. The idea of people having sex while you watch turns you on because you like being a fly on the wall.
You’re someone who processes information and thinks very long and hard about decisions before you make them. You’re a quiet type, but by no means dull or unoriginal. In fact, under that somewhat meek exterior there is a bit of a sexual freak. Lean into, babe. Imagining watching your partner have sex with someone else or watching two strangers have sex is hot.
Sex with a celebrity
You enjoy the finer things in life. You have champagne tastes in all things and don’t care who knows it. You’re smart, witty, and elegant. Naturally, your fantasies reflect this kind of luxe thinking and lifestyle.
Sex with a celebrity is a craving for something more and to feel sexy enough to be wanted by someone sexy, rich, and famous. While this fantasy is a common one for many people, those who fixate on it are usually the life of the party in any given situation. You like things upscale.