Hey, look! It’s another article about sex positions to BLOW HIS MIND. Just kidding.
This is about sex positions to up the ante on clitoral action so you, beautiful lady, can orgasm a whole bunch!
We’d be remiss if we didn’t say straight out that having multiple orgasms isn’t possible for all women. That's just the way it is. There is nothing wrong with you if you if you don’t have multiple orgasms during sex. It just isn’t a thing for every woman. And that is completely OK.
We’re not in the business of orgasm-shaming. Hey, it’s complicated enough overcoming the self-consciousness most of us have to experience one orgasm, you know?
This is all in good fun. Even if you don’t orgasm more than once during sexual activity (or orgasm at all), these are still fun positions to try. Why? Because they feel a-ma-zing.
If you are a person who can experience multiple orgasms, someone who wants to try having multiple orgasms, or are simply looking for ways to boost your chances of rolling into big O number one, two (or three), here are 5 positions you can try. Because, why the heck not?!
1. Lifted missionary
Take one or two pillows (whichever is most comfortable) and place them under your butt. Have your partner enter you in missionary position with either their penis, dildo, or even a G-spot wand.
The pillows give you extra lift so that you can grind your clitoris against your partner’s pubic bone during sex. Also known as “coital alignment technique,” this position gives you both deep G-spot penetration and clitoral contact.
If you can keep up the rhythm through your first orgasm, you’ll likely be able to sail into a second.
2. Forward woman superior
Now cowgirl might be a favorite for many a woman, but it is objectively quite a strenuous position. It’s great for that prime clit stimulation, but the bouncing up and down and grinding back and forth is a lot on anyone’s body.
To give yourself an extra boost, skip the bouncing entirely (it isn’t even fun anyway). Lean forward with your elbows on either side of your partner’s head. This way you’re able to slide back and forth with the added support of your arms.
Plus, this is an optimal position for deep passionate making out. Sometimes a little tongue on tongue action is the juice you need to fly into multi-orgasmic nirvana.
3. Sideways spoon
This take on the classic spoon offers two major improvements to our favorite cuddle position: 1. You receive deeper penetration. 2. You have total unfettered access to your clitoris with either your hands or a toy.
It’s like spooning on steroids. Have your partner lie on his or her side. Lie on your back and turn your body so your nether regions are facing them, legs spread. Have your partner enter your from underneath. You should look like a sexy little crab.
Bonus, with your partner on his or her side, it’s less stress thrusting, which means you can stay in the position for longer. Yeah, you guessed it! This makes multiple orgasms more doable.
4. Missionary a la couple’s toy
Missionary is kind of the LBD of sex positions, but in its bare-naked state, it doesn’t offer up female orgasms a’plenty. Luckily there’s a simple solution: the couple’s sex toy. These toys work by offering a wearable way to get the clit stimulation you need, hands-free.
We recommend the Eva II from Dame Products or the Pivot c-ring from We-Vibe. Eva II attaches to the inner labia, becoming a hands-free clit vibe you can pop in during penetrative sex. It works especially well in missionary because the pull of your partner’s weight gives it that extra, um, je ne sais quoi. #ClitQueen
The pivot will not only give a male partner a longer lasting erection (though it works really well on dildos, too!), but it’s raised top will get your clitoris jiving in ways you didn’t know were possible.
Trust us, it’s tried and true. The toys are specially designed to bridge the gap between penetration of the vagina and the need for clitoral stimulation. It’s just an anatomical truth: Your clitoris needs to be in on the party, but usually doesn’t get enough love.
5. Oral, oral, oral sex
Ah, dare we say it? Want multiple orgasms? Have your partner keep their head downtown through orgasm number one. Sometimes after an orgasm from oral sex (or in general), the clitoris can be over sensitive.
Have your partner grab your thighs and not let you move. You’ll need a champion head-giver for this, and blessings be on you if you have one. A partner who loves giving oral sex? The only kind worth having.
After you’ve come, have your partner tease around your labia, mons pubis, and vaginal opening for a few minutes. They can even give your inner thighs a soft (or hard, no judgement) nibble.
Then, have them start giving you full oral sex again. That, ladies, is the stuff of soul mates. And multiple orgasms. Wink wink.