Most Romantic Honeymoon Hotels in Northern California

The Gables Wine Country Inn is our top pick for honeymooners, with its historic touches and an included breakfast.

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There’s something magical about Northern California—the stunning ocean views, myriad wineries and vineyards, access to laid-back beach towns and bustling cities, and proximity to a forested coastline.

This bucket-list honeymoon destination delivers a range of experiences, as well. Choose a secluded stay in wine country, or opt for a progressive adventure on a road trip up the coast. Before you begin your "happily ever after," check out our list of the most romantic honeymoon hotels in Northern California.

Most Romantic Honeymoon Hotels in Northern California of 2023

Best Overall : The Gables Wine Country Inn


The Gables Wine Country Inn

The Gables Wine Country Inn

Why We Chose It

Set on three and a half acres in Sonoma County, this Gothic Victorian bed and breakfast offers honeymooners a standalone cottage with a two-person hot tub.

Notable Amenities
  • Private cottage with a hot tub
  • EV charging stations
  • Welcome glass of wine, and fresh-baked cookies in the afternoons
  • Wine-tasting, beer-tasting, whale-watching, and beach activities nearby
Pros and Cons
Pros
  • Daily three-course breakfast included

  • Victorian touches throughout

  • Surrounded by 120-foot-tall redwoods and a lavender field 

Cons
  • The two-lane road has morning traffic (hence, each room comes with a sound machine)

Hotel Overview

Have you been dreaming of a romantic honeymoon set among Mother Nature’s most awe-inspiring trees? Your search ends at The Gables Wine Country Inn. Built in 1877, the property boasts Gothic Victorian architecture, a redwood barn (circa 1850), an old milk house, and an original homestead.

Most newlyweds choose to book The Cottage, a standalone honeymoon suite with a queen bed in a loft, a sitting area with a couch, a wood-burning fireplace, a kitchenette, and a hot tub built for two. All guests are welcomed with a glass of wine (honeymooners receive a bottle of champagne), and are tempted every afternoon with fresh-baked cookies.

Enjoy a three-course breakfast each morning on the back deck (weather permitting), complete with fruit and vegetables grown on-site, and other ingredients (like duck eggs) sourced locally.

The Inn brings nature right to your doorstep, with a lavender garden and outdoor firepit situated under the iconic redwood trees. Located in the heart of Sonoma County, you’ll enjoy easy access to vineyards, tasting rooms, and outdoor adventures.

Best Boutique : Brewery Gulch Inn


Brewery Gulch Inn

Brewery Gulch Inn

Why We Chose It

This intimate property is set on a rugged cliff and boasts boutique offerings, like farm-to-table cuisine and Japanese forest bathing.

Notable Amenities
  • Breathtaking coastal views
  • On-site spa with signature treatments
  • Large rooms with fireplaces
  • EV charging stations
Pros and Cons
Pros
  • Daily breakfast and evening wine hour, with appetizers

  • Set on a cliff above the ocean

  • Zen-like property borders 48,000 acres of unoccupied meadows and redwoods

Cons
  • No elevator

Hotel Overview

If you're planning a road trip along California's Highway 1, be sure to spend at least one night at the Brewery Gulch Inn. Standing atop a bluff overlooking Smuggler's Cove, this rustic-chic lodge was constructed using eco-salvaged redwood from the Big River.

With just 10 rooms and one two-room suite, the inn is a cozy and intimate home base for exploring Mendocino County. Curl up in a leather chair and challenge your spouse to a game of Scrabble, while sipping local wine personally selected by the innkeeper. For an unforgettable mind-body experience, book a guided forest bathing session (and add a couple's massage). 

Evening wine hour with bento-style hors d'oeuvres (think—sesame-seared ahi, shrimp and beef dumplings, and carrot soufflé) is the perfect complement to a day filled with scenic trails and sandy beaches. Savor a dinner of culinary delights prepared by an acclaimed chef, before retiring to your room where feather-top mattresses, gas fireplaces, and decks with mesmerizing views of the Pacific Ocean promise an atmosphere of romance.

Best Budget : McCloud River Bed and Breakfast


McCloud River Bed and Breakfast

McCloud River Bed and Breakfast

Why We Chose It

This historic bed and breakfast sits on five acres of woodlands and offers plenty of perks for its modest price tag.

Notable Amenities
  • On-site massage therapist
  • Concierge services for booking activities and dinner reservations
  • Flyfishing trip packages
  • Parking for boats, horse trailers, and campers
Pros and Cons
Pros
  • Daily two-course gourmet breakfast included

  • Views of mature redwood and aspen trees

  • Walkable to downtown McCloud

Cons
  • Creaky old floors may bother light sleepers

Hotel Overview

Fairytale honeymoons do come true, especially in a historic Victorian building at the foot of ice-topped Mt. Shasta. Built in 1903, what’s now known as the McCloud River Bed and Breakfast was once the town’s hub of commerce, housing the McCloud River Lumber Company, a bank, and the local telephone switchboard.

Today, each of the five renovated guest rooms holds a piece of that history. The Switchboard Room offers a view of Mt. Shasta and antique furnishings, plus a sitting room with a daybed. And the Waterfalls Room has a two-person whirlpool tub and a cherry wood four-poster bed.

Join other guests in the parlor each morning for a gourmet breakfast prepared by the innkeeper, who is also a baker. The innkeepers are also happy to act as your honeymoon concierges, booking local activities, day trips, and dinner reservations, to ensure you enjoy all the area has to offer.

The inn boasts a selection of fine wines for purchase, which they can deliver straight to your room for a romantic evening spent stargazing on the deck. On Tuesday nights, when most of the restaurants in town are closed, the inn offers a complimentary in-house dinner.

Best Luxury : Ventana Big Sur, An Alila Resort


Ventana Big Sur, An Alila Resort

Ventana Big Sur, An Alila Resort

Why We Chose It

The all-inclusive, adults-only Ventana Big Sur (an Alila Resort) blends the surrounding outdoor elements with indoor luxury, complete with an on-site spa and luxury glamping services.

Notable Amenities
  • Accommodations include guest rooms, suites, villas, or glamping tents
  • On-site spa with packaged wellness experiences
  • Yoga, meditation, and daily organized hikes
  • Volvo chauffeur service within a three-mile radius
  • Sustainable restaurant menus
Pros and Cons
Pros
  • Adults-only and all-inclusive (alcohol is extra)

  • Safari-style glamping sites available

  • Set on 160 acres

Cons
  • Closest airport (San Jose) is 75 miles away

Hotel Overview

Picture your honeymoon in a rustic, adults-only setting nestled between the Pacific Ocean and dense forest, where every meal is included. You and your spouse may never leave your Vista Hot Tub Suite once you snuggle up to the wood-burning fireplace or enjoy a soak in the outdoor tub.

But for a truly unexpected honeymoon retreat, book one of the two glamping sites situated under the redwood canopy. You certainly won’t be roughing in a safari-style tent, complete with custom-designed mattresses and premium linens. Each site also includes a stocked fire pit, a s’mores kit, a picnic table, and a pair of Adirondack chairs. 

Plenty of activities—like yoga, meditation, Tai Chi, and daily hikes—keep honeymooners busy. And, you’ll stay fueled with the resort’s to-go snacks and complimentary reusable water bottles.

Plus, Ventana Big Sur boasts two pools, Japanese hot baths, falconry classes, and self-guided garden tours to round out your stay. Meals are included and can be enjoyed in your room, at the pool, or at The Sur House.

Best City Views : Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero


Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero

Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero 

Why We Chose It

Location, location, location. And did we mention the views? At the Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero, they’re unbeatable!

Notable Amenities
  • Urban retreat with panoramic views of San Francisco
  • Steps from Union Square
  • 155 contemporary guest rooms and suites
  • On-site spa
  • Multilingual concierges
Pros and Cons
Pros
  • Views of the bay and skyline

  • Centrally located in San Francisco

  • Guest rooms are on the top 11 floors of a 48-story building

Cons
  • Valet parking costs $79 per day

Hotel Overview

If you plan to spend your honeymoon entirely in your hotel room, book a room with a view at the Four Seasons Hotel San Francisco at Embarcadero. But not just any view will do. Choose a room that allows you to gaze out at the Golden Gate Bridge, the San Francisco Bay, and the city below.

Nothing beats the two presidential suites (1,200-square-foot mini-apartments)— one that faces the city, and the other that faces the bay. Both have spectacular terraces, a deep soaking tub and spacious shower, a separate powder room, and living and dining areas. Room service is available 24/7.

Allow the hotel’s concierge team to craft you a curated honeymoon of activities, including San Francisco Through the Lens, a private photo class with award-winning photographer Adam Jacobs. Or do your own exploring with a short walk to Union Square, the Ferry Building, and the San Francisco Museum of Modern Art.

Best Vineyard Views : Kenwood Inn & Spa


Kenwood Inn & Spa

Kenwood Inn & Spa

Why We Chose It

At the Kenwood Inn and Spa, it's hard to tell if you're on a private vineyard in Tuscany—surrounded by fields of grape vines, orchards, and ancient oaks—or at a hotel in Sonoma Valley.

Notable Amenities
  • Sits on 2.8 acres of meticulously landscaped grounds
  • On-site spa offers personalized couple's treatments
  • Free passes to the Parkpoint Health Club
  • Outdoor pool and private cabanas
Pros and Cons
Pros
  • Intimate hideaway set among vineyards and orchards

  • Breakfast, afternoon wine and cheese pairing, and evening cordials included in rate

  • Two pools with waterfalls and a hot tub

Cons
  • Will need a car to explore the area

Hotel Overview

Sonoma Valley’s Kenwood Inn & Spa brings the Mediterranean vibe to Northern California, with its classic Italian villa set in a remarkable landscape. Tuscan-inspired buildings are tucked in among three courtyards and connected by vine-covered pathways that lead to lush gardens.

The guest rooms here are also Italian-influenced, complete with high ceilings, king featherbeds, Italian furnishings and linens, and a gas fireplace. No two rooms are alike, and many have private balconies or terraces.

Each morning, you will dine on a full breakfast that’s delivered straight to your room featuring a signature entrée served alongside scones and other baked goods. Then, in the afternoon, relax with a glass of complimentary local wine and an artisan cheese tasting accompanied by freshly baked cookies. In between, head to the spa for a vinotherapy bath in a tub for two overlooking the vineyards.

On Saturday evenings, the Inn serves a pre-fixe, multi-course dinner with wine pairings in the main courtyard. (Tip: This always sells out, so reserve your table when you book your room).

Best Access to Nature : The Ahwahnee


Why We Chose It

Located within Yosemite National Park, this elegant property is known as the crown jewel of all national park lodges.

Notable Amenities
  • Heated outdoor swimming pool
  • On-site restaurant, bar, and gift shop
  • Concierge services
  • Bike rentals
  • Daily afternoon tea
Pros and Cons
Pros
  • Easy access to hiking and biking trails that lead to waterfalls and lakes

  • Heated swimming pool

  • On-site dining offers views through floor-to-ceiling windows

Cons
  • Rooms book up far in advance

Hotel Overview

Giant sequoias, sheer cliffs, serene waterfalls, and stunning rock formations are just some of the reasons to honeymoon in Yosemite National Park. But you don't need to spend your first days as newlyweds roughing it. Instead, book a room at The Ahwahnee.

Located inside the park, near the base of Half Dome, this property’s architecture complements its natural backdrop, with a granite façade, log-beamed ceilings, handmade stained-glass windows, and massive stone hearths.

The JFK Presidential Suite (President John F. Kennedy stayed there in 1962) is the hotel’s most elaborate and romantic room. The parlor has a fireplace, chairs, and a sleeper sofa, plus there’s a bedroom with a king-size bed and a full modern bath.

Make your way to the Ahwahnee Dining Room for floor-to-ceiling windows with breathtaking views, and menu items like homemade macaroni and cheese and locally sourced seafood.

Best Wellness : Cavallo Point-The Lodge at the Golden Gate


Why We Chose It

Cavallo Point gives you an up-close and personal view of the Golden Gate Bridge, with a focus on wellness-inspired treatments and activities.

Notable Amenities
  • On-site healing arts center and spa
  • Award-winning wine cellar with over 2,000 vintages
  • On-site cooking school offers classes
  • Integrative medicine doctor on staff
Pros and Cons
Pros
  • Located within the Golden Gate National Recreation Area

  • Eco Luxe Pups program, with organic and sustainable dog products

  • On-site farm-to-fork restaurant is a culinary destination

Cons
  • Not a true urban San Francisco experience

Hotel Overview

Some properties have lived many lives, and Cavallo Point Lodge happens to be one of them. Set on a former military base of the Golden Gate Bridge, this LEED-certified Sausalito retreat redefines what it means to be a sustainable stay.

You and your spouse can choose from two room categories: historical (once served as officer’s quarters), and contemporary (with the best views of the bridge). Both types boast flat-panel TVs, organic cotton linens, robes and slippers, espresso coffee and tea machines, and Dyson hair dryers. 

Cavallo Point offers a comprehensive wellness program focused on the Six Pillars of Healthy Living: active living, healthy eating, restorative sleep, stress reduction, connection, and passion, purpose, and gratitude. As such, guests are encouraged to take advantage of the many experiences throughout their stay.

Rise and shine with a morning yoga class. Book a guided hike or Restorative Sleep Experience. Enroll in a cooking lesson. Reap the balancing benefits of a Himalayan salt stone massage. Or simply, take a dip in the pine-shaded pool.

Four-legged friends are welcome here, too. A pup-approved swag bag stocked with organic treats made by local businesses will greet your dog upon check-in.

Final Verdict

The Gables Wine Country Inn is our top pick for the best honeymoon hotels in Northern California primarily due to its historic touches and access to nature. Unlike some other properties on our list, this inn boasts a private cottage and hot tub that offers complete privacy for romance. The included breakfast, a welcome glass of wine, and fresh-baked cookies assure the ultimate in pampering, and you'll never bore with the plethora of outdoor activities offered.

Guide to Choosing a Romantic Honeymoon Hotel in Northern California

Location

Before settling on a Northern California honeymoon destination, make sure you're visiting a place that suits both you and your spouse. City stays offer the excitement of being near the hustle and bustle, whereas rural stays lend a unique experience with nature. Northern California is known for its rugged coastline and iconic redwood trees, so if you're up for a road trip, stops at many points the way will give you the full experience.

Local Excursions

Don't book a night in the boonies if you are interested in getting out and seeing the sights. Honeymoon hotels in wine country offer tasting trips to wineries and breweries. City hotels in San Francisco lend easy access to the city's tourist attractions and historical sights, if that's your jam. And coastal stays will put you near the beach, allowing for daily beach-going, whale-watching, or fishing excursions.

Nightly Rate

Consider your budget and desires before booking your lodging. Will you be spending most of your time in the room or at the hotel? If so, splurge for five-star luxury at an all-inclusive resort that offers loads of on-site amenities. However, if you'd rather spend your money on experiences, then a bed and breakfast in an ideal location for exploring may be more your speed.

Packages Offered

Some Northern California hotels offer packages, so make sure to visit the websites to see what's included. Wine country hotels bundle a couple nights' stay with a wine tour or tasting. Rural hotels offer fly-fishing packages for avid fishermen. And hotels focused on wellness include spa services, yoga, or a healthy meal in their packages.

The View

From the redwoods to the coast, and the Golden Gate Bridge to the San Francisco skyline, Northern California hotels are surrounded by jaw-dropping vistas. Whatever view you prefer, make sure to book a room with a private balcony (preferably one that is west-facing for romantic sunsets). Some properties have on-site dining with a view, while others are perched high above the Pacific Ocean, so no matter where you go on the property, you'll experience an amazing vista.

Methodology

We evaluated dozens of properties before narrowing down our list of the most romantic honeymoon hotels in Northern California. We considered factors like the hotel’s reputation, quality of service, and crowd-pleasing amenities (i.e. access to hiking and nature, ocean views, and heated pools). We also took into account the hotels' dining venues and unique offerings (like wine selection, wellness activities, and concierge services). In addition to customer reviews, we also considered each of the hotel’s sanitation and cleanliness measures.

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