3 Mistakes Brides Make When Choosing Their Wedding Menus

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Truth: I don't even remember exactly what we served for dinner at our wedding reception. I recall everybody raving about the food, but I don't recall eating that night. Looking back, it's all a happy blur.

Not many wedding guests specifically remember what they ate at anybody's wedding a few months later—and that's okay. As long as the food is good, there's plenty of it, and everybody is satisfied, then you've served a very successful wedding dinner. Despite that fact, many brides and grooms truly agonize over the menu decisions for their wedding reception.

Ironically, the more time brides and grooms spend worrying about their wedding menu, the more errors they tend to make. Here are three of the most common menu mistakes brides and grooms make.

1. Offering Too Many Options

Most of the time, the bride and groom will need to provide headcounts and dinner orders to the caterer or wedding venue ahead of time. When you select your menu, the price per person will be more expensive if you're offering more options, because the caterer has to prepare a larger variety of meals, necessitating more time and manpower.

For most couples, it's more than enough to offer three options—one should be beef or pork, another should be a chicken or seafood dish, and something vegetarian (vegan if necessary)—in order to satisfy all of your guests.

2. Trying to Satisfy Every Possible Dietary Restriction

Nowadays, people are allergic to food with gluten, dairy, nuts, certain fruits, and a variety of other things. There are no way brides and grooms can plan their wedding menus to cater to each individual guest's dietary needs and preferences. In fact, trying to do that will make you a little crazy, and likely blow your budget. Reality check: People with allergies and dietary issues know what they can and cannot eat. It's your wedding—choose the food that most appeals to you, and offer that to your guests on your big day. Just be sure to offer a vegetarian option because that's a common preference.

3. Assuming They'll Save Money With a Buffet or Food Stations

If you're getting married at a hotel, a buffet may be less expensive than serving seated/plated meals because the hotel will re-purpose the extra food the next day. But, if you've hired a caterer to come to your venue, chances are that offering a buffet or the more trendy food stations will cost you a lot more money than serving one dinner per person to your guests, pre-ordered. This is because the caterers have to bring a lot more food for a buffet because it's almost impossible to guess what your guests will eat, and they have to have enough of everything for everyone. And no, you don't get to keep the leftovers. They bring more than they're obligated to serve to make sure they don't run out, and what they don't use leaves with them.

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