Today's brides have plenty of options for what to do with their wedding gown post-"I do." Some donate or sell their gown, others re-purpose their wedding dress into lingerie or cocktail attire, and others "trash it" with a wet n' wild photo shoot. Many brides, however, want to hang on to that dress that represents so much love, happiness and celebration.
That's why wedding dress preservation is so important. A wedding dress is usually intriciately designed and extremely delicate, and can't be cleaned like any old dress. Wedding dress cleaning and preservation is key to making sure you dress lasts a lifetime. Here are ten things you need to know about wedding dress preservation.
1. Wedding Dress Preservation and Standard Dry Cleaning are NOT the Same Thing
Unlike one-size-fits-all dry-cleaning, wedding gown preservation begins with an experienced specialist's assessment. The specialist creates a unique treatment plan according to your dress's fabric, stitching and details, and analyzes stains along them hem (which are essentially unavoidable on a ground-grazing ensemble like a wedding gown) and entire dress. Whatever the specialist comes up with will keep the give the dress new life without harming the delicate fabric.
There are, however, some dry cleaners who also offer specialized wedding dress cleaning. You can use them, but make sure to vet their process first. Make sure to find a dry cleaner who uses a virgin solvent rather than a recycled solvent. Recycled solvents (which are used for typical dry cleaning) contain impurities that can redeposit onto clothing and leave your wedding dress with strange smell. Wedding dress cleaning and preservation should only be done with virgin solvent.
Before committing to any cleaner or preservationist, research their policies. You want someone who guarantees they won't do any damage as they preserve wedding dresses, and in the event any damage is done, look for a guarantee that the cost of the dress (not just the preservation) will be refunded. Furthermore, find out how long they guarantee that thew wedding dress will remain pristine after their preservation.
3. Invisible Stains Might Be Lurking on Your Wedding Gown
"Oddly, the most dangerous spills are the ones you cannot see," says Sally Conant, of the Association of Wedding Gown Specialists. "White wine and other things dry clear, and these latent stains contain sugar that caramelizes over time into dark brown stains that ordinary dry cleaning cannot remove. You may think your gown is fine, but in six months or more, the latent stain becomes pale yellow and then darkens as it ages. Heat accelerates the process."
Professional cleaners and preservationists are trained to spot the unseen, of course. They'll be able to deal with any stains on your wedding gown, from the invisible to the visible. Did the hem get dirty from your picture-perfect shots in a garden? Did someone slosh red wine on it? Did an overzealous aunt smudge her foundation on it when she came in for a hug? They'll create a treatment plan for each stain.
4. Pay Attention to the Label on Your Dress
This is one label you don't want to ignore. Look for any specific dry cleaning directions it might have, such as "Dry Clean Only with Petroleum Solvent." Whatever it says, listen to it, and make sure the preservationist or dry cleaner you choose has the appropriate cleaning solutions for your wedding dress.
5. Time is of the Essence
Professional cleaning is the first step in wedding dress preservation, and the sooner you can get the wedding dress to the preservationist or the dry cleaners, the better. Brides often wait up to six weeks to take their dresses to be cleaned, and that's no good! By that time, stains will have had time to really set it. Take your dress off as soon as the reception is over and make sure it gets to the dry cleaner the very next day. If you're jetting off on a honeymoon, arrange for a bridesmaid or your mother to take it for you!
6. The Wedding Dress Preservation Box is Sealed Airtight
A preserved dress is typically stored in an airtight box where the oxygen has been sucked out and replaced with nitrogen. This prevents oxidation (aging, discoloration, etc.), which can happen to clothes that have been stored for several years. Wedding gown specialists recommend that you never break the seal, and if you do, that you should have it preserved and sealed back up again. If you do, however, take it out for some reason, make sure to handle the gown with white cotton gloves and care.
7. Budget for Wedding Dress Preservation
Include wedding dress preservation in your wedding budget. Considering the average wedding preservation kit costs $250 to $750, it's a significant expense!
8. Store the Wedding Dress in a Cool, Dark Place
Once the wedding dress has been properly cleaned, it's time to store it. Protect your dress from direct sunlight, which can quickly fade and turn the dress yellow. Take it off the hanger, which can cause the heaviest dresses to become misshapen. Whatever you do, [avoid storing your dress in a regular, zip up-plastic bag! Plastic like that holds moisture and can potentially discolor a wedding dress. The exception to this is acid-free plastic, which wedding preservation boxes are made from. Go with a professional wedding preservation box, or better yet, a wedding chest.
"An acid-free wedding chest that protects your gown from air and light is the safest way to store your gown for many years to come," Conant advises. "Breathable bags provide safe short-term storage, but long-term hanging is not good for you gown."
9. Rules of Thumb for DIY Wedding Dress Preservation
If you want to preserve your wedding dress yourself, following these guidelines will set you up for success. (Just remember DIY wedding preservation comes with no guarantee!)
- Always use white cotton gloves when handling the wedding dress.
- Before you go all-out cleaning the dress, spot test the fabric in an inconspicuous area just to make sure it's not going to harm the fabric.
- Soft bristled brushes will help you get the job done. Pick up some gentle toothbrushes and have at it.
- NEVER use bleach on your gown. The delicate fabric can be irreversibly damaged if you use this incredibly harsh chemical.
- When the wedding gown is clean and dry, wrap it in acid-free tissue paper or pre-washed unbleached muslin. Avoid colored tissue paper as it can stain the dress over time. Place layers of tissue paper or muslin between the folds of the dress, as well, to avoid permanent creasing. Stuff the bust of the dress with tissue paper, as well, to maintain the full shape of the dress. If you dress has sleeves, that's another area where you will want to fill with tissue paper.
- Place it in an acid-free container and store it in an area that is safe from harsh light or temperatures (think under a bed). You should also add silica desiccant packets inside the box for humidity control.
- Alternatively, you can use an acid-free plastic garment bag and hang the dress in a cool, dry closet. Avoid hanging the wedding dress on a hanger made or wire or wood. Wedding gowns are much heavier than ordinary clothes, and their weight will cause a pull on the fabric as it hangs, which can distort the gown. If you choose to hang a wedding gown, always use a padded hanger. Hanging your wedding dress offers dress the best air circulation and never leaves your dress at risk for permanent creasing!
- Don't store your gown in an attic, a garage, a basement or cellar, as temperatures and/or humidity in these ares can become extreme.
Check in on your dress every two or three years and refold it to further ensure no permanent creasing occurs.
10. Don't Forget Your Shoes and Bouquet
Like your dress, the shoes you walked down the aisle in and the bouquet you held also hold a lot of meaning. You can preserve both of these alongside your gown, well. To preserve your wedding shoes by giving them a good cleaning. For cloth shoes, use a gentle cloth and sponge and lightly scrub your shoes with a mild detergent. For leather shoes, give them a polish. If you really did a number on your shoes, you can take them to a dry cleaner. After your shoes are clean, wrap them in white tissue and place them in box.
Depending on the type of material your shoes are, you may be able to include them with your dress in the preservation box. Talk to your preservationist about whether this is possible.
For bridal bouquets, you can press, hang, coat the flowers in wax, or use epoxy resin to preserve the blooms. (Get a breakdown of each process in How to Preserve Your Wedding Bouquet).
11. Proceed Without Wedding Gown Preservation at Your Own Risk
If you choose not to preserve your wedding dress, you risk the following:
yellowing of the fabric
brown oxidation spots
mold and mildew growth
permanent fabric creasing
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