Looking for some sexual new terrain to explore? How about the ball sack?
The balls never get enough attention. When they are talked about, it’s in rather grotesque, porn-y terms such as “tea-bagging” or described as “slapping against” someone’s body.
We don’t know why people have to be so weird about the ball sack. It’s not gross at all. It is an infinite source of male pleasure and we should explore it. Instead of being gnarly, inevitably making it a place we don’t care to venture, let’s give it the credit it deserves.
The balls are great! Playing with them is incredibly erotic, so we don't want you to miss out on this underutilized sexy activity. They’re easy to incorporate into your sex routine to up the game on your partner’s pleasure (and it will probably turn you on, too).
Here is how you get the balls in on the sexual action in a fun, not-at-all complicated way.
Talk about them
You know how you love having your partner talk about your vulva and how utterly beautiful it is? He feels the same way about his penis and balls.
Test the waters. Mention how big they are and how much you love them. Gauge the reaction you receive. Talk about how good they feel against your thigh or in your hand. It’s super dirty, dirty-talk and we love it.
Positive affirmation about one’s body is a huge turn-on, and since the balls are rarely given the love they deserve, he’ll take notice. They aren’t just there without purpose.
When you’re giving your partner a blowjob, use one hand to stroke his shaft and head down to his balls. Licking them creates an awesome sensation and changes up the regular routine. Plus, it gives you a break from having his penis in your mouth (which can be tiring). Run your tongue along each of the balls in circles and long licks.
Just remember, always ask your partner before sexy time begins if he’s into having his balls touched. For some, it isn’t pleasurable at all. You want to be sure you’re not crossing anyone’s boundaries before trying something new. You are partners and you both deserve respect.
Massage them during sex
A scrotal massage is a very erotic twist during penetrative sex. Reach down and massage your partner’s balls in the same way you would roll dice in your hand. Ask him if he’d prefer harder or softer pressure. Preference will vary from person to person.
This is easiest in the cowgirl position (aka: woman superior). You are on top and able to reach behind you easily.
Grab a hand-held vibrator
Vibrators are not just for female pleasure. They are an excellent way to stimulate male-bodied people as well. Grab your favorite finger vibrator and hold it in your palm. Cup your partner’s sack and gently massage. You can also keep your hand stationary, if you prefer.
This is a great technique during both oral sex and penetration. We love the Fin from Dame Products, as it stays on your fingers and essentially turns your hand into a vibrator.
Put them in your mouth
Now, this one sounds harder than it actually is. You don’t have to put the entire sack in your mouth (unless you want to). Balls come in all shapes and sizes, but in general, both in your mouth at one time is uncomfortable.
Opt for one at a time. This way it gets the attention it deserves and you avoid a case of lockjaw.
What to do now that it’s in your gob? Easy peasy. You can suck on it (gently) or even hum, focusing the vibrations in your mouth and lips. Just remember, no teeth. No teeth ever.
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Give them a tug during orgasm
Now, the word “tug” is used lightly here. What we mean is more along the lines of “milking.” As mentioned (and we cannot say it enough), check with your partner to see if this is OK before going all in.
As your partner is getting close to orgasm start to lightly milk his sack as you would the utter of a cow (we know that’s not the sexiest image, but it works). Keep going once he begins climaxing until he’s finished. This technique can offer an incredibly intense sensation, noticeably increasing the power of one’s orgasm.