A bridal shower isn't a wedding, but that doesn't mean the invites don't matter. While the wording on a bridal shower invitation is best when it's short and sweet, it's important that you follow a few rules to make sure all of the guests feel welcome and know what to expect at the party. Here's everything you need to know about how to address your bridal shower invitations.
The words on your invitation—along with the design—will indicate how formal or casual, how traditional or modern, this shower will be. More-traditional gatherings may want to open with bridal shower invitation wording like:
- "Please join us for a bridal shower honoring [bride]."
- "Help us shower [bride] with love."
- "Come celebrate [bride] before she ties the knot."
For alternative wording, try something more playful, such as:
- "A toast to the soon-to-be Mrs."
- "Let's help this Miss become a Mrs."
- "Pop! Fizz! Clink! Twirl! Help us celebrate our favorite girl!"
- "Pop the bubbly, she's getting a hubby!"
How to Address Bridal Shower Invitations
Now for the details. Make sure to include all of the following critical bridal shower invitation info!
The guest of honor's name.
If you're hosting a coed shower, make sure to include the groom on the invitation so that people know this isn't a gals-only day. However, keep the groom's name off the invitation if the party is only for the bride. It's nice of you to want to include the groom as a way of celebrating the couple, but doing so will leave guests confused.
The date, the time, and the location.
Make sure these are in fonts people can read easily. To make sure the date is crystal clear, spell out the month rather than using numerals. For example, write November 6, 2017, instead of 11-6-16. And while you can include the address of the shower, in today's age of Google Maps, you can save space and just put the restaurant or venue's name. (Of course, if the shower is being held at a hostess's house, addresses still need to be included.)
A way to RSVP and a date to RSVP by.
You'd be surprised how many people forget this very important detail! Include the name of the person guests should contact, along with a phone number or email address. And to make sure you know how much food to order or wine to buy, include a RSVP-by date so you can get a head start on the planning.
The name of the host or hosts.
While not required, it's always nice to include who is throwing the party, especially if it's multiple people. This way, guests will know who to thank, as well as have more than just the RSVP contact to reach out to with any questions. You don't need to include contact information for each host, but if the hosts are relatives, it's nice to include that with their name. "Hosted by Aunt Linda, Aunt Ronda, and Aunt Leslie," for example. If all of the bridesmaids are hosting the shower, instead of naming names you can add a line at the bottom of your invitation that says, "Hosted by her loving bridesmaids."
The registry information.
There are two ways to include the bride's registry on the invitation. The first is by directing guests to the couple's wedding website. For example, write: "For registry information, please visit [insert website here]." The other option is to simply name the stores the bride and groom are registered at: "[Name] is registered at Bed Bath & Beyond, World Market, and Crate & Barrel." Whichever option you choose, it gets the job done.
When Should I Send Bridal Shower Invitations?
One rule applies to every invitation, no matter if it's formal or online: Give guests as much notice as possible, at a minimum four to six weeks.
Is It Okay to Send Email Invitations Instead of Formal Invitations?
It depends on the type of shower and who's hosting. If the shower you're throwing is hosted by the bridesmaids and for close friends of the bride only (we're talking no family here), it's okay to use an email invitation. But keep in mind, every part of the wedding experience is special to the bride, and a printed bridal shower invitation goes a long way—especially when it comes to keeping mementos. If the shower includes family members, like grandmothers, older family, or older family friends, it's best to stick with a printed invitation; you never know what will get lost online.
10 Bridal Shower Invitation Wording Examples
1. Fanciful Bridal Tea
By order of the Hatter you are summoned
to the matter of celebration
with me, friends, family, and tea.
To a wonderland you never knew,
just before I say I do!
You are cordially invited to a
bridal shower tea party
2. Très Créatif Bridal Shower Invitation
Boarding pass to a
in honor of Sophie Watson
Confirm, s'il vous plait, your reservation with the ticketing agent.
3. Seaside Bride
Please join us for a bridal shower honoring Robyn Wallace
4. Festive Fiesta
the bride & groom
before the big day!
Please join us for a
fiesta couples shower
5. Sweet and Simple
Please join us for a
honoring Caroline Gabriel
6. Brunch and Bubbly
Please join us for
brunch & bubbly
with the bride-to-be
7. Classic Bridal Brunch
You are invited to a
in honor of
8. Pancakes & Panties
Please join us for
pancakes & panties
in preparation for
Julia's big day
9. Java Vibes
Love Is Brewing
Kathy & Jason
are the perfect blend
Let's celebrate with a bridal shower for Kathy Greenley
10. Beauty and the Bridal Shower
"Once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale."
Be our guest
for a bridal shower in honor of
11. Nautical Bridal Shower Invitation
Dropping the Anchor
& Tying the Knot
Join us for a bridal shower honoring Kelley Carvitto
12. Black, White, and Bubbly
Sip sip hooray!
Join us for a bridal shower honoring Sarah Johnson.
13. '90s Throwback to Friends
The One Where
Please join us for a bridal shower
in honor of Amanda Lawton
14. Miss to Mrs.
Miss to Mrs.
Join us for a bridal shower honoring
15. The Adventure Begins
The Adventure Begins
Please join us for a
to celebrate bride-to-be
100 Years of Bridesmaid Style: