The 10 Best Sex Games for Couples That Aren't Totally Cheesy

Because sex really is all fun and games

Updated 09/27/19

Jessica Bosse / Daring Wanderer

Cue the sexual fireworks in your bedroom (or wherever you like to get it on) with a little foreplay. Sure, we call pleasure products “toys” and sexual encounters “play,” but sometimes you need to do more than just use it metaphorically. Because sex should be fun, and there's nothing wrong with a little silliness. Ahead, you'll find the 10 best sex games for couples that will help you to have a more fulfilling and super-hot sex life. Or, at the very least, serve as amazing inspiration for a whole range of sexual possibilities.

1. Dirty Dice 'The Original' Adult Dice Game

Sometimes you just need explicit directions to get the sexy ball rolling. These sexy dice provide couples with a flirty, non-intimidating way to up the ante in the bedroom. One die offers a verb, the other a body part—and the possibilities don't stop there.

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2. Sex Checks

The next time you or your partner wants to try something new, but aren't entirely sure how to ask for it, try writing a sexy check. These checks allow couples to “cash in” a sexual favor.

It opens a door for conversation around kink and fantasies you may never have thought of before. Not to mention, there is something pretty hot about a partner handing you a check for some oral. Yes, please.

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3. Position of the Day Playing Cards

Tired of the same old missionary and cowgirl routine? Allow these playing cards to spice up your night. Not everyone wants to pull up a Cosmo article on their phone right before sex to show their partner a new position they want to try. It’s a lot hotter to make a game out of it by seductively pulling a card from the stack.

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4. The Naughty and Nice Dates Kit

These cards not only make for a hotter sex life, but they're also great for renewing emotional intimacy. With over 100 different kinds of "naughty" and "nice" date night ideas, you and your partner will be pushed out of your comfort zone to try new restaurants, activities, and, of course, sex positions.

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5. Kamasutra Starter Kit

The Kamasutra is the heart of what good sex is all about. Where should you even start? It’s not all about pretzel sex positions. It’s about sensual touch and connection, something we often forget in our hectic lives.

This adorable, sexy starter kit comes with everything you need to kick off sexual experimentation. From almond massage oil to a feather tickler, you’ll be soaring to new sensory heights in no time.

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6. Let's Play Doctor Game

Communicating about different role play fantasies can feel a little awkward. How do you even tell someone you want to be a sexy gym coach or naughty math teacher?

This role-playing game allows you to try a host of different personas on for size. You might find that you thought you wanted to be a sexy cop, but it turns out you’re much more turned on being a sexy handyperson.

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7. Massage Seductions Game

Nothing revs up the sexual engines like a massage. The problem? Giving a massage is pretty exhausting. These massage cards take the boring out of massaging your partner by offering a slew of easy-to-do techniques—professional-style massage oil included.

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8. Truth or Dare

Suspense and nerves light up the sexual heat. This luxurious box of cards is nothing like the old Truth or Dare you played in school. The best part? None of the commands or questions are cheesy. Cards range from “Kiss me goodbye like it’s the last time you’ll ever see me” to “Tell me about a fantasy you’ve always had but didn’t want to tell.” Trust us, it’s hot.

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9. Basic Bondage

If you’re interested in trying kink, then this fun and simple bondage-for-beginners kit will totally hit the spot. To make it a game, start by allowing your partner to handcuff you (or vice versa) and check in periodically to make sure they are comfortable.

Next, place the blindfold over your partner's eyes. Before doing anything sexual, start with a massage and allow them to engage in their senses. You’ll find that constant communication can help you feel closer and more connected.

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10. 100 Questions About Sex

Turn up the intimacy factor by quizzing your partner with 100 thought-provoking sex questions. These cards will ignite a whole array of interesting sexual topics of conversation pertaining to sexuality and fantasy.

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Gigi Engle is a sex educator and writer living in NYC. Follow her on Instagram and Twitter at @GigiEngle.

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