Play THIS Game to Keep Your Sex Life Steamy

Adult truth or dare for sexual communication and hot, hot fun

Updated 12/03/18

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Date night? Unsure what you should do? Kind of over the normal routine? We feel that.

Forget the pizza and movie. Grab a bottle (or two) of wine and pull out the sex toy collection and some of your favorite lingerie. Tonight is Adult Truth or Dare and we are serving it up HOT.

Adult Truth or Dare isn’t like your average “sexy dice” or cheesy bachelorette party game gimmick. If you allow it to be more than a game, it can be door into a whole new world of sexy fun.

It’s a game of pushing sexual boundaries and opening up your sex life to new possibilities. After all, there are always things we want to know, try, or say that we’re a little nervous to bring up. Games like this allow for better communication around sex in a fun and relaxed way.

This is a game that allows both you and your partner to know each other and yourselves better as sexual beings. It’s a way to broaden sexual horizons and have fun while doing it.

How to play adult truth or dare

In the real game of Truth or Dare, the whole point of the dare option is to make people feel uncomfortable and out of their depth. What makes it funny and quirky is that you’re getting someone to do something they wouldn’t normally want to do.

This isn’t like that at all. Yes, we call them dares and the spirit of the game remains intact, but we have to add caveats when it comes to sex. These are dares you want to do.

Don’t think of the dares in this game as anything other than silly and fun. You should feel safe in this game and comfortable enough with your partner to not do anything you don’t want to do.

If your partner dares you to do something that you don’t want to do, don’t do it. In that same sphere: Don’t dare your partner to do something they wouldn’t normally want to do. You two know each other better than anyone, you know what would be “adventurous” vs. “not chill.”

Nothing in sex is good if it’s forced. Being uncomfortable isn’t hot. It might be funny to be dared to lick the floor in a group of seven teenagers, but when it’s sexy time for you and your spouse, gross, terrible things aren’t OK. If your partner doesn’t want to do anal sex ever in their life, you don’t dare them to try an anal toy with you. Make sense?

Anyway, now that we’ve laid out these very important guidelines, let the fun begin!

Here are 15 sexy adult truth or dare questions to get this party started

DARE

Lick chocolate syrup off my breasts and stomach.

TRUTH

What is your greatest sexual fantasy and how can I be a part of it?

DARE

Let’s use my vibrator together during sex.

TRUTH

Where is the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

DARE

Kiss and nibble my inner thighs.

TRUTH

What is your favorite move that I do to you during oral sex?

DARE

Come on a part of my body where you never have before.

TRUTH

What was it like when you lost your virginity?

DARE

Spank me.

TRUTH

What is my sexiest attribute?

DARE

Do a strip tease for me.

TRUTH

When did you first realize what it felt like to be horny?

DARE

Go into the other room and take a sexy photo and then send it to me.

TRUTH

What movie best encapsulates your sexual awakening?

DARE

Kiss all over my body without touching me with your hands.

TRUTH

What’s the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened when you were having sex?

DARE

Tell me one a sexual secret you’ve never told anyone else before.

TRUTH

If you could have sex with any celebrity, who would it be?

DARE

Take your underwear off and give them to me.

TRUTH

Where is one place you’ve always wanted to have sex?

DARE

Lick the place on my body that you love most. The mouth doesn’t count!

TRUTH

The last time you were getting yourself off, what were you thinking about?

DARE

Take my pants off with only your mouth.

TRUTH

What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever masturbated to?

DARE

Give me a ten minute foot massage while telling me a sexy, erotic story.

TRUTH

What’s the wildest or kinkiest thing you’ve ever done during sex? Would you ever do it again?

DARE

Kiss my neck slowly and carefully.

TRUTH

Tell me, in detail, everything you want to do to me tonight.

DARE

Dominate me.

TRUTH

What’s something you’ve always wanted me to say or call you in bed?

Gigi Engle is a certified sex coach, educator, and writer living in Chicago. Follow her on Instagram and Twitter at @GigiEngle.

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