What shoes should the mother of the bride wear?

The mother of the bride should wear shoes that make her feel comfortable, confident, and stylish. Some popular styles to choose from are kitten heels, mules, block heel sandals, flats, and pumps.

What are some of the most comfortable mother of the bride shoes?

Styles with supportive and stable silhouettes like block heel sandals, kitten heels, and flats will be the most comfortable. Look for shoes with supportive ankle straps and padded footbeds for added comfort and stability.

What colors should the mother of the bride avoid wearing?

While there are no rules as to what color shoes the mother of the bride should and shouldn't wear , it's best to check with the bride if you're not sure about your shoe choice.

17 Best Mother of the Bride Shoes of 2021

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Once you've secured your mother of the bride outfit, it's time to find the perfect pair of shoes to complete your elegant ensemble. But finding a pair that's fashionable and comfortable can be challenging, to say the least. Luckily, we've found plenty of wedding-worthy shoes that are so stylish and supportive you won't want to take them off!

When it comes to mother of the bride shoes, there are so many gorgeous options to choose from. If you're a pro at walking in heels, then opt for elongating pumps or stilettos. For those who prefer a lower heel, mules, block-heeled sandals, and kitten heels are incredibly timeless and comfortable. Of course, you can never go wrong with a classic blush pump or a pair of crystal-embellished sandals.

Whether you'll be by your child's side at a black-tie wedding or a casual backyard celebration, read on for the best mother of the bride (and mother of the groom!) shoes for every style and occasion.

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Best Flats: Badgley Mischka Slingback Skimmer Flat

This Badgley Mischka pair proves that comfortable flats are anything but frumpy. Mixed crystals shimmer and shine along the strap while a pointed toe elongates the leg.

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Best High-Heel: Jewel Badgley Mischka Embellished Strap Sandals

If you're looking to gain some height from your wedding day heels, opt for these pumps from Badgley Mishka. Not only will they give you the lift that you're looking for, but they're designed with a block heel for support and stability.

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For a Summer Wedding: Loeffler Randall Platinum Bow Heel

gold shoes — Courtesy of Loeffler Randall

Walk down the aisle in style with these Loffler Randall sandals. In a versatile metallic hue, this pair can be worn with virtually any mother of the bride outfit—and features an ankle strap and low block heel for added support and comfort.

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Most Grass-Friendly: Aldo Block Heel Sandals

If the wedding is taking place in a garden or on grass, opt for a sandal with a block heel to avoid sinking into the soil and to ensure a smooth trip down the aisle.

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Most Vintage-Inpsired: Rachel Simpson Blue Shoes

If you're a mother of the bride who loves all things vintage, then you'll love the look of this retro-inspired pair from BHLDN.

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Best Kitten Heels: Rupert Sanderson Crystal-Embellished Shoes

Kitten heels are the perfect footwear solution for those who want the comfort of a flat with the lift of a heel. This style is crafted from lustrous moiré and features a pointed toe for an elongating look.

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Most Fashion Forward: Miu Miu Slingback Pumps

If you're a fashion-forward mother of the bride, then these Miu Miu heels will certainly appeal to your stylish tastes.

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Best Jewel-Tone: Manolo Blahnik Hangisi Kitten-Heel Satin Slingback Pumps

Elegant in emerald green, these singblack pumps from Manolo Blahnik would make a timeless addition to any formal wardrobe.

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Most Timeless: Manolo Blahnik Suede Pump

You can never go wrong with a simple yet classic suede pump. This beautiful blush style goes with everything and is a timeless choice for weddings and formal occasions.

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Most Classic: Roger Vivier Flower Crystal-Embellished Satin Pumps

As elegant as ever, these Roger Vivier pumps are stunning for the mother of the bride who loves a classic silhouette (but with a twist!). We're picturing this style paired with a sophisticated evening gown for a black-tie wedding.

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Best Wedges: Stuart Weitzman Metallic Leather Wedge Mules

wedge shoe — Courtesy of Saks Fifth Avenue

A wedge sandal is probably one of the most comfortable shoe styles out there. We love this one in particular for its minimalist aesthetic and versatility. This style could easily be worn with a chic pantsuit or a short mother of the bride dress.

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For a Black-Tie Wedding: Badgley Mischka Embellished Toe Pumps

If the wedding calls for black-tie attire and you're planning to wear a formal black gown, this sparkly pair will be the perfect finishing touch to your elegant ensemble.

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Most Feminine: Seychelles Bow Heels

It doesn't get more feminine than this dainty kitten heel mule. Equal parts classic and comfortable, you'll be dreaming up excuses to wear this pair long after the wedding weekend is over.

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For a Beach Wedding: Castañer Espadrilles

For casual seaside nuptials, espadrilles are a stylish and practical choice. This woven wedge practically screams beach wedding and comes in an array of gorgeous colors.

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Best Metallic: Badgley Mischka Crystal Sandals

Metallics are neutral shades that go with everything – and this silvery style is no exception. This embellished pair could easily be worn with a little black dress or a gown in a vibrant print.

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Best Budget: Zara Blue Slingbacks

In a refreshing blue hue, this silky style is a stunning option for those who want to add a subtle pop of color. Its polished silhouette is perfect for anything from a semi-formal wedding to a black-tie bash.

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Best Patent Pump: Mango Patent Leather Heel Shoes

A patent beige pump is as timeless as ever, and is a failsafe option for a mother of the bride shoe. We love this style in particular for the mother with traditional tastes.

What to look for in mother of the bride shoes

A beautiful pair of shoes serves as the perfect finishing touch to any mother of the bride outfit. While you'll want to select a pair of shoes that are stylish and season-appropriate, you'll also want to make sure that they're comfortable and supportive, too. After all, you'll be on your feet all day and the last thing you'll want is to pick a pair of shoes that pinch and squeeze your feet. Certain silhouettes like sandals with block heels and ankle straps will always be a practical and stylish choice – especially for garden or beach weddings. Looking for something more formal? Opt for satin kitten heels or pumps in rich jewel tones with shimmering embellishments. And for those with traditional tastes, classic pumps in blush or nude shades are a timeless option that pairs beautifully with all colors and any type of mother of the bride outfit.

FAQ

What shoes should the mother of the bride wear?

The mother of the bride should wear shoes that make her feel comfortable, confident, and stylish. Some popular styles to choose from are kitten heels, mules, block heel sandals, flats, and pumps.
What are some of the most comfortable mother of the bride shoes?

Styles with supportive and stable silhouettes like block heel sandals, kitten heels, and flats will be the most comfortable. Look for shoes with supportive ankle straps and padded footbeds for added comfort and stability.
What colors should the mother of the bride avoid wearing?

While there are no rules as to what color shoes the mother of the bride should and shouldn't wear, it's best to check with the bride if you're not sure about your shoe choice.

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Contributing writer Sophie Moore is a former fashion editor at Brides and is an expert in all things bridal attire, from couture wedding gowns to the perfect "something blue" accessory. She researches and sources the best fashion items for brides, grooms, wedding guests, bridal parties, and more.