Planning is no easy task, and especially not when it comes to the ceremony. Odds are, you haven’t organized one before! And while you should be basking in the moment you’ll say “I do” to your forever partner, you’re actually sifting through tons of logical battles, like where to seat your divorced parents or if you can include a man in your bridal party. (That’s an enthusiastic yes, by the way!) We gathered our best wedding etiquette experts to answer popular ceremony questions, so you can get back to the fun part: relishing in that pre-wedding glow.