These Bachelor and Bachelorette Couples Are Still Together as of 2020

Proving you can find lasting love on reality TV.

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Call us hopeless romantics, but we believe The Bachelor and its related spin-offs can result in true and lasting love. (Well, sometimes.) The 18-year, 47-season franchise is built around a simple promise: One Bachelor or Bachelorette is given 25 to 30 suitors to choose from, with the season ideally ending with love and a marriage proposal. While drama often steals the spotlight, the franchise has led to many over-the-top television engagements and weddings, and many more happy couples.

While some couples meet on their respective Bachelor or Bachelorette seasons – like the now-married Trista and Ryan Sutter, Jason and Molly Mesnick, Sean and Catherine Lowe – other franchise stars are making connections on the show's spin-offs, including Bachelor Pad, Bachelor in Paradise, and The Bachelor: Winter Games. And others are even meeting off-air at Bachelor Nation events, over social media, or through mutual friends. The weddings, however, are always practically holidays for fans and, much to their excitement, often televised.

Even if you're a devoted member of Bachelor Nation, it can be hard to keep track of whether these couples are on or off. So we rounded up all of the still-standing duos from the franchise right here so you can dive into their love stories and read about the latest in their lives.

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Trista Rehn and Ryan Sutter

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His season: The Bachelorette, season 1
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 1 and The Bachelorette, season 1

Once dubbed the “godmother and godfather” of Bachelor Nation by Chris Harrison, Trista and Ryan were the first couple in the The Bachelor franchise to be (and stay) happily married. When Trista finished second in the debut season of The Bachelor, producers knew she’d make the perfect Bachelorette. Ryan was the top choice as he finished season 1 of The Bachelorette with a handwritten poem and a marriage proposal to Trista. The couple wed on December 6, 2003, as part of a three-episode ABC special. They now live together in Colorado and have two children, Blakesley and Maxwell.

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Molly Malaney and Jason Mesnick

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His seasons: The Bachelorette, season 4 and The Bachelor, season 13
Her season: The Bachelor, season 13

Jason Mesnick served quite the term during his on-air time in Bachelor Nation. In his debut on season 4 of The Bachelorette, he made it as far as runner-up, when bachelorette DeAnna Pappas ended their relationship in the season finale. Mesnick's broken heart was mended when he took the lead on season 13 of The Bachelor. Unfortunately, Jason fell in love with both of his final two women and initially proposed to Melissa Rycroft. However, in the subsequent live special, After the Final Rose, Jason revealed his lingering feelings for runner-up Molly Malaney. He ended things with Melissa on stage and asked Molly for a second chance. Jason and Molly were engaged and married within a year. Now the couple live together in Seattle and have a daughter, Riley.

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Jesse Csincsak and Ann Lueders

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His season: The Bachelorette, season 4
Her season: The Bachelor, season 13

Jesse Csincsak won season 4 of The Bachelorette, but his relationship with its star, Deanna Pappas, ended within the year. Shortly after, Jesse attended a Bachelor contestant reunion cruise where he met Ann Lueders, a first-episode castoff from Jason Mesnick’s season of The Bachelor. Jesse and Ann hit it off and married in the summer of 2010 in Las Vegas. Today they live in Arizona and have three children. And, perhaps to pay it forward, Jesse organizes Bachelor and Bachelorette reunions!

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Chris Lambton and Peyton Wright

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His season: The Bachelorette, season 6
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 10 and Bachelor Pad, season 1

Chris Lambton was the runner-up in Ali Fedotowsky's season of The Bachelorette, while southern gal Peyton Wright competed on Andy Baldwin's season on The Bachelor in 2007. Peyton appeared on Bachelor Pad in 2010, where she met Jesse Beck, another one of Ali's suitors, whom Chris knew well. Though she left the spinoff show solo, Jesse invited Peyton to an event that Chris was attending. Sparks flew between Chris and Peyton and they were engaged a year later. Following their June 2012 wedding, the couple signed on to cohost a HGTV show called Going Yard (Chris is a landscaper), and the rest is Bachelor Nation history. Today, they live together on Cape Cod with their daughter, Lyla.

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Ashley Hebert and J.P. Rosenbaum

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His season: The Bachelorette, season 7
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 15 and The Bachelorette, season 7

Ashley Hebert, who competed for Brad Womack's heart during his second run as The Bachelor, got her chance to pick a suitor as The Bachelorette, and J.P. Rosenbaum was a standout from the start. After a proposal in Fiji, the couple settled down in Princeton, New Jersey. The lovebirds said "I do" during a televised ABC special in December 2012 in front of guests that included Trista and Ryan Sutter, Jillian Harris, Emily Maynard, Sean Lowe, and Jason and Molly Mesnick. They have since welcomed two children, Essex and Fordham.

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Holly Durst and Blake Julian

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His seasons: The Bachelorette, season 7 and Bachelor Pad, season 2
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 12 and Bachelor Pad, season 2

Holly Durst, a contestant on Matt Grant's 2008 season of The Bachelor, showed up to the second season of Bachelor Pad with former fiancé Michael Stagliano – the two had a difficult relationship. Blake Julian, from Ashley Hebert's Bachelorette season, also appeared on the spinoff. As Holly and Michael sorted through their feelings, she and Blake began seriously flirting. Holly and Michael went on to win the show's grand prize, but their relationship was over thanks to her new romance with Blake. On the season finale, Michael was shocked as Holly and Blake announced their engagement. The pair tied the knot in June 2012. They live together in South Carolina and recently adopted their first child in 2019 after seven years of struggling with infertility.

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Sean Lowe and Catherine Giudici

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His seasons: The Bachelorette, season 8 and The Bachelor, season 17
Her season: The Bachelor, season 17

When Emily Maynard sent home Texas-based insurance salesman Sean Lowe near the end of her Bachelorette season, she confessed that she said goodbye to "the perfect guy." ABC agreed and made him the next Bachelor. His season culminated with a proposal to Catherine, a graphic designer from Seattle. The pair beat the odds and became the only couple from the Bachelor franchise to get engaged during the finale and ultimately wed. Sean and Catherine said "I do" on live TV in January 2014 before a crowd of former Bachelor and Bachelorette contestants. Their televised wedding special chronicled their planning and decision to wait to have sex until their wedding night. Today, Sean and Catherine live in Dallas with their two sons, Samuel and Isaiah, and daughter Mia, which they welcomed in December 2019.

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Desiree Hartsock and Chris Siegfried

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His season: The Bachelorette, season 9
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 17 and The Bachelorette, season 9

Sean Lowe sent Desiree Hartsock home on The Bachelor, but her girl-next-door persona won her a spot as the next Bachelorette. She fell hard for Brooks Forester, who suddenly left the show before the finale. But former baseball player Chris Siegfried helped her pick up the pieces, and before she knew it, they were yachting through the Caribbean. Chris gave a heartfelt proposal during the finale, and the couple got married off-camera in January 2015. Since then, Desiree has launched her own line of bridal gowns, and the couple has had two sons, Asher and Zander.

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Ty Brown and Elizabeth Kitt

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His season: The Bachelorette, season 6
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 14 and Bachelor Pad, season 1

When this twosome announced their engagement in October 2013, many were surprised that they were even dating. Elizabeth Kitt, a castoff from Jake Pavelka's season who later appeared on Bachelor Pad, and Ty Brown, a musician who had competed for Ali Fedotowsky's heart, reportedly met through mutual Bachelor friends (of course) and began dating soon after. They got engaged at the home they share in Nashville and tied the knot in March 2013. Five years later, the couple welcomed a daughter, Blakely.

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Jade Roper and Tanner Tolbert

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His seasons: The Bachelorette, season 11 and Bachelor in Paradise, season 2
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 19 and Bachelor in Paradise, season 2

Getting an onscreen invite to the wedding of these two Bachelor Nation alums was the sweetest Valentine's Day treat we could think of, and we devoured every moment of The Bachelor at 20: A Celebration of Love special like a heart-shaped box of chocolates. After attempting to win the hearts of Chris Soules and Kaitlyn Bristowe, Jade Roper and Tanner Tolbert met on season 2 of Bachelor in Paradise, fell madly in love, and tied the knot in a televised wedding which aired on February 14, 2015. The reception was basically a big Bachelor reunion with alums like Kaitlyn Bristowe and Shawn Booth, Trista and Ryan Sutter, Andrew Firestone, Andi Dorfman, and Chris Soules all in attendance. Chris Harrison even officiated the ceremony. Today, Jade and Tanner live in California with their daughter, Emerson, and son, Brooks.

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Carly Waddell and Evan Bass

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His seasons: The Bachelorette, season 11 and Bachelor in Paradise, season 3
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 19 and Bachelor in Paradise, season 3

Carly and Evan were an unlikely pair who fell in love through relatively extreme circumstances. On season 3 of Bachelor in Paradise, Evan had very clear feelings for Carly, who seemed frankly uninterested in him. Following Carly's trip to the emergency room, her feelings began to grow and by the end of the season, Evan was down on one knee and Carly enthusiastically accepted. The pair wed in the beginning episodes of season 4 of Bachelor in Paradise, in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico. They have since welcomed a daughter, Bella, and son, Charles.

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JoJo Fletcher and Jordan Rodgers

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His season: The Bachelorette, season 12
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 20 and The Bachelorette, season 12

After suffering heartbreak on Ben Higgins’s season of The Bachelor, JoJo took the reins on her own season of The Bachelorette in 2016. Jordan was a clear front-runner, snagging the first impression rose among many one-on-one dates, and the season ended with Jordan on one knee. He re-proposed with a custom five-carat diamond ring. The pair is still very much in love (according to social media, anyway), and after taking it nice and slow, the two are gearing up for a 2020 wedding in California.

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Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo

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His season: The Bachelorette, season 13
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 21 and The Bachelorette, season 13

Following an unsuccessful run on Nick Viall’s season of The Bachelor, Rachel headed season 13 on her own. Of her 24 eligible men, Rachel selected Bryan as winner of the show and her heart. As with many previous seasons, Bryan was the recipient of the first impression rose, and that initial attraction carried him through to the end. After the franchise reportedly did not offer the couple a televised wedding, Bryan and Rachel wed in Mexico in the summer of 2019.

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Raven Gates and Adam Gottschalk

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His seasons: The Bachelorette, season 13 and Bachelor in Paradise, season 4
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 21 and Bachelor in Paradise, season 4

An audience favorite from Nick Viall’s season of The Bachelor, Raven met Adam (of Rachel’s season of The Bachelorette) in Mexico on season 4 of Bachelor in Paradise. The two got off to a late start but left the season together and have remained that way ever since. Adam proposed to Raven in Dallas, Texas in September 2019, and the two are set to make it official at Temple Emanu-El in Dallas, Texas, on May 30, 2020.

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Arie Luyendyk Jr. and Lauren Burnham

His seasons: The Bachelorette, season 8 and The Bachelor, season 22
Her season: The Bachelor, season 22

After heartbreak on Emily Maynard's season of The Bachelorette, Arie was called back five years later to star in his own season of The Bachelor. In the finale, he ended his relationship with Lauren and proposed to Becca Kufrin. Months later, however, during After the Final Rose, Arie revealed that he couldn't stop thinking about Lauren during his time with Becca, broke things off with her, and reunited with Lauren. During that live show, he proposed to Lauren, promising to make everything up to her. Well, that he did, as the two quickly got pregnant and married and now live together with their daughter, Alessi.

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Becca Kufrin and Garrett Yrigoyen

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His seasons: The Bachelorette, season 14
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 22 and The Bachelorette, season 14

After a bait and switch in the finale of Arie Luyendyk Jr.'s season 22 of The Bachelor, no one was more deserving of a journey to everlasting love than Becca. On night one, he pulled up in a minivan full of diapers and orange slices. That was enough to earn Garrett the first impression rose and eventually the final rose, too. The pair recently moved to San Diego and will make a beautiful bride and groom, as this styled shoot proves!

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Ashley Iaconetti and Jared Haibon

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His seasons: The Bachelorette, season 11 and Bachelor in Paradise, seasons 2, 3, and 5
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 19, Winter Games, season 1, and Bachelor in Paradise, seasons 2, 3, and 5

Ashley I. is arguably one of the biggest icons to come from The Bachelor franchise, and wouldn’t we all be heartbroken had she not eventually found love with one of the handsome, eligible men she met there? Finally, in early 2018, Ashley and Jared announced their official couple status after years of an on-again, off-again friendship with benefits. Just months later in June, Jared proposed with a classic Neil Lane diamond while filming Bachelor in Paradise season 5 in Mexico. The pair is clear that this is the real deal and took beautiful engagement photos before getting married in a gorgeous Rhode Island ceremony in August 2019.

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Kevin Wendt and Astrid Loch

His seasons: The Bachelorette Canada, season 1, The Bachelor: Winter Games, season 1, and Bachelor in Paradise, season 5
Her seasons: The Bachelor, season 22 and Bachelor in Paradise, season 5

Kevin was the "winner" of Bachelorette Canada, and Winter Games, but, sadly, both of those relationships did not work out. Already a fan favorite to viewers in the U.S., his arrival in Paradise was a welcome surprise. He and Astrid hit it off early, but after watching his ex-girlfriend, Ashley I., get engaged on the beach, Kevin broke down, broke things off with Astrid, and with the show. The two both went home from Mexico. Outside of filming, the two reunited and decided to make things work. At the reunion show, Astrid and Kevin revealed they are dating, and that things are going well. In December 2018, Astrid moved to Canada to be with him.

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