International Women's Day: 15 Empowering Feminist Quotes on Love and Marriage

Never forget that you, too, deserve to be celebrated. Today and every day

Updated 03/08/19

Alberto E. Rodriguez

Love and marriage go hand in hand, as do equality and respect. In many relationships, although not all, women often lose sight of their value after settling with a partner. Of course, it's amazing to find a significant other who views you as an equal, but it's important to always keep in mind that you're worth your weight in gold all by yourself. In this new age of feminism, women are urged more than ever to celebrate their strength, knowledge, and perseverance. So, in honor of International Women's Day, we've compiled some of our favorite feminist quotes on love, relationships, and marriage to empower and inspire.

01 of 15

Gloria Steinem

Alberto E. Rodriguez

“Being married is like having somebody permanently in your corner. It feels limitless, not limited.”

02 of 15

Helen Gurley Brown

<p>Helen Gurley Brown attends a gala in New York City.</p>

Ron Galella, Ltd.

"Rich or poor, you have a better chance of keeping him—and keeping him interested—if you belong to something or someone besides him."

03 of 15

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

<p>Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie attends a interview in Washington, D.C.</p>

Chip Somodevilla

“A woman at a certain age who is unmarried, our society teaches her to see it as a deep personal failure. And a man, after a certain age isn’t married, we just think he hasn’t come around to making his pick.”

04 of 15

Emma Watson

<p>Emma Watson attends a gala at the Metropolitan Museum of Art.</p>

Mike Coppola

“I like men with quick wit, good conversation, and a great sense of humor. I love banter. I want a man to like me for me; I want him to be authentic.”

05 of 15

Martha Gellhorn

<p>Novelist Martha Gellhorn.</p>

FPG

“I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”

06 of 15

Cher

<p>Cher attends Hillary Clinton's presidential campaign in Florida.</p>

Johnny Louis

"The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing—and then marry him."

07 of 15

Beyoncé

<p>Beyoncé performs at the Staples Center.</p>

Larry Busacca/PW

“Your self-worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone telling you who you are.”

08 of 15

Eartha Kitt

<p>Eartha Kitt during a 2008 performance.</p>

Steve Thorne

“I fall in love with myself, and I want someone to share it with me. And I want someone to share me, with me.”

09 of 15

Audre Lorde

<p>Audre Lorde</p>

Robert Alexander

"You have to learn to love yourself before you can love me or accept my loving.”

10 of 15

Jennifer Aniston

<p>Jennifer Aniston attends the 2015 Screen Actors Guild Awards.</p>

Frazer Harrison

“We don’t need to be married or mothers to be complete. We get to determine our own ‘happily ever after’ for ourselves.”

11 of 15

Oprah Winfrey

<p>Oprah Winfrey in Melbourne, Australia.</p>

Scott Barbour

“Don’t settle for a relationship that won’t let you be yourself.”

12 of 15

Sheryl Sandberg

<p>Sheryl Sandberg attends a conference in California.</p>

Jerod Harris

"The most important career choice you'll make is who you marry. I have an awesome husband, and we're 50/50."

13 of 15

Toni Morrison

<p>Author Toni Morrison attends a ceremony at George Washington University.</p>

Ilya S. Savenok

"You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Don't. It's a bad word, 'belong.' Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn't be like that."

14 of 15

Shonda Rimes

<p>Shonda Rimes campaigns for former presidential candidate Hillary Clinton.</p>

Pacific Press

“Don’t let what he wants eclipse what you need. He is very dreamy but is not the sun. You are.”

15 of 15

Zoe Saldana

<p>Zoe Saldana attends the 2015 GLAAD Media Awards in California.</p>

Jason Kempin

"If you are not happy with a person, leave. And wait until you find that one person who makes you feel good about yourself every single day and is not expecting you to change but to grow."

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