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Photo by Jose Ruiz Photography; Cake by Vanessa Caro
Even the prettiest wedding cake with all of its sugared flowers and fondant piping can feel a little incomplete without the topper tradition. The classic bride and groom mini-statue that has sat on top of countless cakes has gotten a more inclusive makeover over the past few years—from a figurine of a pretty pair of brides to two dashing miniature grooms—all thanks to the Supreme Court's ruling that gay marriage bans are unconstitutional. Although there are still strides to make in marriage equality, LGBTQ+ couples have been finding ways to get creative with the old-school wedding tradition, choosing playful, modern, and romantic toppers for their wedding sweet treats that wholly represent them.
Laser-cut silhouettes add a dose of the fresh and contemporary to classic tiers, while personalized, sculptured mini-me's put a new, romantic spin on the traditional. These totally customized—and not to mention, darn cute—toppers take the cake when it comes to celebrating equal love.
Whether they're humorous, whimsical, or tastefully elegant, the final touch to your wedding cake should reflect the to-be-wed couple's personal style. We've compiled a few of our fave inclusive topper styles because all those sweet upcoming nuptials need a cake topper that celebrates #loveislove.
A Namesake Confection
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Photo by Sylvie Gil Photography; Event Planning by Sasha Souza Events; Cake by Sweet on Cake
While this toppers placement may not be on top, we'll let it slide as it's topping the base layer of the cake. The metallic marquee highlight's this couples celebrity nickname.
Birds of a Feather
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Photo by Aaron and Whitney Photography
How about this pair of nuptial love birds for you love birds? Two tuxed-out penguins pose in front of a confectionary, rainbow wedding arch.
A Perfect Match
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Make sure your toppers match your personal style. We love this cake topper of two customized brides, one in a gorgeous gown and the other in a smart gray suit.
Perfect Puzzle Pieces
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Photo by Jose Ruiz Photography; Cake by Vanessa Caro
This shiny topper has "perfect fit" written all over it, literally! Two matching puzzle pieces complete the sweet sentiment.
Love Birds
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This gussied-up pair of penguins tops the charts, er, cake. We can't get enough of how well-accessorized these two are: one boasting a mint-green tie and the other a matching bowtie.
Cutouts of Love
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This paper doll–inspired, glittery cake topper is both elegant and sleek. Not to mention complements the cake stand beautifully.
Lithographic Love
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Consider two silhouetted grooms holding a heart for a fun topper. We love the initial-emblazoned heart at their feet for an even more personalized touch.
A Traditional Take
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We adore this sweet and traditional figurine cake topper, featuring two grooms embracing. Note the distinct outfits!
A Rustic Resemblance
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You can feel the love with this rustic cake topper of two brides carved in wood. The simple design combined with their emotional hand-holding is oh so wholesome and touching.
Sleek Silhouettes
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This laser-cut silhouette cake topper of two sleek grooms in their wedding best reflects on a tender moment. A stunning finishing touch to the midnight-blue cake covered in a veil of pearl embellishments.
A Family Affair
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Another way to inject personality in your cake is to include your beloved pets (or other important family members!). Take a cue from this wooden cake topper of two blushing brides and their adorable pet cats.
Wooden Wonders
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These whimsical wooden groom cake toppers are accompanied by their pet dog. Cute!
Nostalgic Tributes
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Be extra playful and quirky with a Bert and Ernie cake topper. These childhood favorites will have everyone riding a sentimental wave of nostalgia.
Matching Titles
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Photo by Stacey Salter Moore
Make way for the Mrs.! These two brides spotlighted their new titles with a glittery wedding topper and matching, confectionary engagement rings for extra pizazz.