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They may be the youngest people in your wedding party, but flower girls often steal the show (at least for a minute!) with their cute procession down the aisle. For many little girls, being part of a wedding is a dream come true. From frilly dresses to wedding cakes and flowers, the role of flower girl has a lot of perks. And like playing princess for a day, they deserve the royal treatment. To say thanks to your small helpers, be sure to gift them something sweet that will help keep the magic of the day alive, long after she’s grown out of her golden slippers.
Show you care by picking the perfect memento that will tickle her fancy. From sparkling jewels and keepsake boxes to helpful wedding day accessories, there’s a gift for every girl!
Read on for the best flower girl gifts.
Finch and Fox Happy Flowers Personalized Tote Bag
This personalized tote is sure to come in handy as a bag she can use well beyond the big day. Whether she’s toting around accessories for her flower girl outfit or a snack to bring on a playdate, both mom and daughter will thank you for this one!
Goldie the Handpicked Flower Girl by Mindy Weiss
This whimsical book by celebrity wedding planner Mindy Weiss is the perfect gift for any future flower girl. Inspired by the author's own granddaughter, it's a sweetly illustrated journey through the wedding process and is sure to make the little one feel more at ease (and excited!) about her role on the big day.
Joytrip Kids Camera
Kids see the world with a sense of wonder. Give your flower girl this cute camera and let her capture the wedding through her own eyes. She’ll be sure to love snapping pictures of Grandpa on the dance floor and you may even end up with few choice shots that your wedding photographer didn’t capture!
The Crafty Engineer Personalized Flower Girl Water Bottle
This double-walled stainless steel water bottle makes for a surprisingly thoughtful gift. It can be personalized with the flower girl’s name, putting her a step ahead from mom’s perspective. This is something she can take to school every day as she regales her friends with stories of her heroic walk down the aisle.
Bloomsbury "I'm a Flower Girl" Activity and Sticker Book
Kids love gifts and moms love something that will keep them occupied for a few minutes. This interactive activity book helps them to understand what a wedding is all about. Perfect for the quieter, contemplative kid, this gift is a great way for them to participate if the dance floor isn’t their thing.
"Think Big, Little One" by Vashti Harrison
A gift given by the modern bride, this book embraces femininity and strength so that your flower girl knows that the white dress is only part of the story. Featuring trailblazing women who’ve made a big impact in areas from science to art, this is a gift that will have your little girl dreaming big!
Thimble and Doll Custom Doll
Every little girl dreams of having a doll that looks just like her! Choose from a variety of hairstyles, clothing, and skin tones so that the flower girl and her doll will be truly twinning. You can even add a hand-sewn patch with the girl’s name or a thoughtful message.
If you're on the hunt for a sweet custom gift that she'll treasure, you can't go wrong with Z Create Designs Personalized Flower Girl Box or Finch and Fox Happy Flowers Personalized Tote. And a special book like Goldie the Handpicked Flower Girl, by celebrity wedding planner Mindy Weiss, will help your flower girl feel more comfortable and excited about her role on the big day.
What does a flower girl do?
Flower girls lead the wedding procession, scattering petals in the path ahead of the bride and her party. The flower girl tradition began in Greek and Roman times, with little children leading a wedding procession scattering herbs and wheat as a symbol of fertility.
What do flower girls wear?
Flower girls traditionally are outfitted either in white or in a color that relates back to the wedding palette. They usually carry a special flower girl basket filled with petals and sometimes wear flower girl crowns.
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