What does a flower girl do?

Flower girls lead the wedding procession, scattering petals in the path ahead of the bride and her party. The flower girl tradition began in Greek and Roman times, with little children leading a wedding procession scattering herbs and wheat as a symbol of fertility.

What do flower girls wear?

Flower girls traditionally are outfitted either in white or in a color that relates back to the wedding palette. They usually carry a special flower girl basket filled with petals and sometimes wear flower girl crowns.

The 22 Best Flower Girl Gifts in 2023

<p>Bride with flower girl</p> — Photo by Zibetti Photo and Film

They may be the youngest people in your wedding party, but flower girls often steal the show (at least for a minute!) with their cute procession down the aisle. For many little girls, being part of a wedding is a dream come true. From frilly dresses to wedding cakes and flowers, the role of flower girl has a lot of perks. And like playing princess for a day, they deserve the royal treatment. To say thanks to your small helpers, be sure to gift them something sweet that will help keep the magic of the day alive, long after she’s grown out of her golden slippers.

Show you care by picking the perfect memento that will tickle her fancy. From sparkling jewels and keepsake boxes to helpful wedding day accessories, there’s a gift for every girl!

Read on for the best flower girl gifts.

Z Create Design Personalized Flower Girl Jewelry Box

Etsy Personalized Flower Girl Jewelry Box — Courtesy of Etsy

Give her something to store all her treasures in. This bespoke box can be personalized with the name of the flower girl so she’ll have something to remember the day forever.

Price at time of publish: $20

Summer Jewelry LA Personalized Flower Girl Necklace

Etsy Personalized Flower Girl Necklace — Courtesy of Etsy

This sparkly keepsake can be customized with a myriad of details. Choose from a variety of delicate flower charms and complete it with the special touch of the flower girl’s initials. This is a gift that she’ll enjoy for years to come.

Price at time of publish: $18 for two letters in gold

Finch and Fox Happy Flowers Personalized Tote Bag

Etsy Happy Flowers Personalized Tote Bag — Courtesy of Etsy

This personalized tote is sure to come in handy as a bag she can use well beyond the big day. Whether she’s toting around accessories for her flower girl outfit or a snack to bring on a playdate, both mom and daughter will thank you for this one!

Price at time of publish: $19 for light-no gusset

Flower Girl Name Puzzle

Etsy Flower Girl Puzzle — Courtesy of Etsy

If your flower girl enjoys piecing together puzzles and riddles, she will definitely love this personalized puzzle. Customize it with her name and favorite colors to get her excited to walk down the aisle with you.

Price at time of publish: $17 for 4-6 letters in one color

Shropshire Petals Flower Girl Proposal Confetti Pop

Etsy Flower Girl Proposal Confetti Pop — Courtesy of Etsy

Surprise and delight her with this custom confetti popper. She can even start practicing her aisle flower toss—this popper is stuffed with pretty petals that come in a range of custom colors.

The White Company Bunny Slippers

The flower girl’s definitely not going to want to go to bed, but maybe she can be convinced with these adorable bunny slippers. Soft and cozy, she’ll be anxious to slip these on after a busy day walking down the aisle and tearing it up on the dance floor!

Price at time of publish: $35

Goldie the Handpicked Flower Girl by Mindy Weiss

This whimsical book by celebrity wedding planner Mindy Weiss is the perfect gift for any future flower girl. Inspired by the author's own granddaughter, it's a sweetly illustrated journey through the wedding process and is sure to make the little one feel more at ease (and excited!) about her role on the big day.

Price at time of publish: $19

Flower Girl Denim Jacket With Pearl Detailing

Etsy Flower Girl Denim Jacket with Pearls — Courtesy of Etsy

She’s sure to be the coolest—and cutest—kid on the block when she’s sporting her custom flower girl jean jacket. Personalized with her name or your own saying, this gift is instantly Insta-worthy.

Price at time of publish: $68 for blank/non-custom

Boutique Eclipse "Will You Be My Flower Girl" Puzzle

Have your flower girl put the pieces together— she’s going to be walking down the aisle! This clever invitation comes gift wrapped in the color of your choice and once opened reveals a fun puzzle with a custom message.

Price at time of publish: $8

Le Rose Satin Flower Girl Robe

Available in a range of delicate shades, this luxurious robe can be personalized with a name or monogram, making it fit for a flower girl!

Joytrip Kids Camera

Kids see the world with a sense of wonder. Give your flower girl this cute camera and let her capture the wedding through her own eyes. She’ll be sure to love snapping pictures of Grandpa on the dance floor and you may even end up with few choice shots that your wedding photographer didn’t capture!

Price at time of publish: $38

The Crafty Engineer Personalized Flower Girl Water Bottle

Amazon Personalized Flower Girl Water Bottle — Courtesy of Amazon

This double-walled stainless steel water bottle makes for a surprisingly thoughtful gift. It can be personalized with the flower girl’s name, putting her a step ahead from mom’s perspective. This is something she can take to school every day as she regales her friends with stories of her heroic walk down the aisle.

Price at time of publish: $26

Bloomsbury "I'm a Flower Girl" Activity and Sticker Book

Amazon "I'm a Flower Girl" Activity and Sticker Book — Courtesy of Amazon

Kids love gifts and moms love something that will keep them occupied for a few minutes. This interactive activity book helps them to understand what a wedding is all about. Perfect for the quieter, contemplative kid, this gift is a great way for them to participate if the dance floor isn’t their thing.

Price at time of publish: $6

Melanie Marie Heart Charm Necklace

Elegant and timeless, this gift is a perfect gesture for an older flower girl. Available in rose gold, sterling silver, and gold, this sweet piece comes personalized with up to three initials making it a heartfelt memento of your wedding day.

Price at time of publish: $33 for 16-inch chain with one heart charm, gold-plated

"Think Big, Little One" by Vashti Harrison

A gift given by the modern bride, this book embraces femininity and strength so that your flower girl knows that the white dress is only part of the story. Featuring trailblazing women who’ve made a big impact in areas from science to art, this is a gift that will have your little girl dreaming big!

Price at time of publish: $9

Kido Chicago Flower Sunglasses

Perfect for the destination beach wedding, these adorable sunglasses give your flower girl extra petal power. Fun and fashionable, the bridal party will surely be jealous of this one!

Thimble and Doll Custom Doll

Every little girl dreams of having a doll that looks just like her! Choose from a variety of hairstyles, clothing, and skin tones so that the flower girl and her doll will be truly twinning. You can even add a hand-sewn patch with the girl’s name or a thoughtful message.

Price at time of publish: $32 for baby

Flower Girl Jute Tote Bag

This flower girl gifting bag is perfectly multi-use. Outside of your proposal, your flower girl can take the bag with her to the beach, to store her favorite toys, or as a personal tote for when she is on-the-go.

Price at time of publish: $13 for design + flower girl

Flower Girl Personalized Bunny

Select from multiple color ways for this super adorable (and soft!) plush bunny, ranging from a soft gray with pink ears or a dainty white with whimsical flowers. Add your flower girl's name and your wedding date on its ears for added personalization.

Price at time of publish: $23 for new beige floral 8-inch

"Thank You" Coloring Book for Flower Girl

Etsy Flower Girl Thank You Coloring Book — Courtesy of Etsy

If she's into arts and crafts, this is a great way to get her excited for the wedding or when she's dancing around at the reception. This creative set comes with an optional mini coloring book, "flower girl" crayons, a flower crayon, and a customizable greeting box.

Price at time of publish: $15 for set without notebook

Flower Girl Sequin Proposal Pillow

Etsy Flower Girl Sequin Pillow Proposal — Courtesy of Etsy

This reversible pillow will for sure be a favorite. Just a single swipe with your hand will reveal a sweet, hidden message that she'll always remember.

Price at time of publish: $31 for no insert just case

Flower Girl Craft Painting Kit

A keepsake she will be able to personalize herself. This flower girl craft set features everything she'll need to paint, including six plaster flowers, gems, a paint brush, and six vibrant paints.

Final Verdict

If you're on the hunt for a sweet custom gift that she'll treasure, you can't go wrong with Z Create Designs Personalized Flower Girl Box or Finch and Fox Happy Flowers Personalized Tote. And a special book like Goldie the Handpicked Flower Girl, by celebrity wedding planner Mindy Weiss, will help your flower girl feel more comfortable and excited about her role on the big day.

FAQ

What does a flower girl do?

Flower girls lead the wedding procession, scattering petals in the path ahead of the bride and her party. The flower girl tradition began in Greek and Roman times, with little children leading a wedding procession scattering herbs and wheat as a symbol of fertility.
What do flower girls wear?

Flower girls traditionally are outfitted either in white or in a color that relates back to the wedding palette. They usually carry a special flower girl basket filled with petals and sometimes wear flower girl crowns.

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