The 23 Best Bridesmaid Proposal Gifts for 2020

Your spouse-to-be may have just popped the question, but now it's your turn! Because your wedding day obviously wouldn't be complete without your best friends by your side, your future bridesmaids deserve a grand gesture when asking them to join your wedding party.

To put it even more in perspective, bridesmaids are essentially the behind-the-scenes stars of all weddings. At the end of the day, your 'maids have a lot of work cut out for them. That's why you should treat your friends to something special when you ask them to be your bridesmaids. Whether it's a simple, heartfelt card or a custom gift box personalized just for them, you can woo your crew with an array of thoughtful gifts that show you how much you appreciate them.

A bridesmaid proposal present can range from whimsical (think mini piñatas) to meaningful (a custom portrait of the two of you), or anything in between. The main thing is to communicate how important their friendship is to you and how much you want them by your side on the big day.

Here, the best bridesmaid proposal gifts for your important crew.

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Mod Party Bridesmaid Proposal Gift Box

Surprise your future 'maids with a pretty-in-pink (or any of eight other colors) personalized package, stemless wine glass, candle, matches, lip balm, compact, and "Will you be my bridesmaid?" sticker.

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Olivia Goree Will You Be My Bridesmaid Cards

A pretty card with a thoughtful message gets the point across just as effectively as an over-the-top gift. You can even customize the interior or back with photos of you two together.

Looking for more great customizable paper goods for your wedding? Check out our list of best websites to design your own wedding invitations.

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Lulu Flora Bridesmaid Proposal Piñata

Pop the champagne [piñata] to celebrate your bridal crew. Whether paired with more goodies or simply sent with a card, each personalized party essential comes equipped with a removable bottom to make way for your choice of filling. These can even make an encore appearance at your bachelorette.

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Lulu Sugar Bridesmaid Candle

Another definitive way to warrant a unanimous "Yes" out of your crew? A wedding cake scented candle, sealed with a pretty bow.

Looking for more great candle gift ideas? Take a peek at our round-up of pretty wedding favors.

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Inklings Paperie Scratch-Off Telegrams

Whoever said snail mail was boring has obviously never opened a scratch-off note that asks them to be a bridesmaid.

Write your message on each sustainably produced card, cover with the provided stickers, and let your leading ladies uncover the surprise.

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Rojos Baker Mini Heart Cookies With Personalized Message

Hit your 'maids where it truly counts—the sweet tooth. Five heart-shaped sugar cookies will truly be irresistible.

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Little Flower Soap Co. Handmade Bridesmaid Gift

In honor of finding your perfect bridesmaid matches, keep the spirit alive with none other than a decorative matchbook. An additional personalized candle and citrus-lavender bath salts add to the sentiment for a low-key, yet still completely sentimental, proposal package.

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Glass Goat Bee Bridesmaid Proposal Box

Who wouldn't want to "bee" your bridesmaid after they get their hands on these goodies?

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Label Your Life Bridesmaid Proposal Labels

There's bridesmaid proposal bubbly...and then there's bridesmaid proposal bubbly with special labels just for your best friends. Add a personal touch to any bottle, be it full-sized wine or mini champagne.

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Design Mummy Bridesmaid Proposal Gift Pack

For brides who want to dabble in a bit of DIY, get a head start on creating your own kit with the proposal trifecta: a customizable card, wine label, and—best of all—chocolate wrapper.

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Angela Thompson Simple Chic Bridesmaid Cards

For modern 'maids, keep it short (and just as sweet) with this minimal card.

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Sierra Designs Studio Will You Be My Bridesmaid Card

Customize the figures on these pretty cards so the hair color and skin tones match you and your potential 'maid. It's a personalized portrait of the two of you that she'll keep forever.

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Lea Delaveris Best Day Just Got Better Bridesmaid Cards

For the girls who put the "party" in bridal party, this modern script card is the perfect choice.

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Sugarfina Will You Be My Bridesmaid Bento Box

sugarfina bridesmaid — Courtesy of Neiman Marcus

Your gift recipient will love this assortment of favorite Sugarfina gummy candies, including Champagne Bears, Pink Diamonds & Champagne Bubbles. Pair the set with a bottle of her favorite sparkling wine for a bubbly-inspired gift.

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Crisky Champagne Bridesmaid Makeup Bags

Fill these cute pouches with travel-sized creams, perfume and beauty products. This set includes five bridesmaid's pouches, one maid of honor and one for the bride herself.

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Cat and Bear Creations Bridesmaid Proposal Puzzle

This handpainted puzzle is a clever way to surprise your girls. Gather your crew together and present this puzzle for them to put together as a group—when they've finished, make sure to have champagne ready to toast.

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Artifact Uprising Brass & Wood Display Box

artifact uprising box — Courtesy of Artifact Uprising

This modern stand-alone frame holds up to 50 prints that can be switched out whenever she wants to change things up. Bonus points if you include some photos of the two of you or your crew of friends so she can get started.

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Geo Minimalist Gold Initial Necklace

Personalization doesn't have to be pricey—these little letter necklaces pack a big bang for the buck. Each necklace comes with a bridesmaid proposal question attached, so it's ready to go.

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Benamor Rose Amelie Gift Set

benamor gift set — Courtesy of Anthropologie

Who doesn't need a little pampering? These Portuguese-crafted set of rose-scented body butter, hand cream, and lip balm is just what your friend needs to relax on the go (they're the perfect size to throw in her handbag!).

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Miss Tallulah Paperie Chalkboard Will You Be My Bridesmaid Postcard

With a chalkboard-like background and a floral theme, this card works for both a rustic and garden party-themed wedding style.

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Leather Tassel Zipper Pouch

leather pouch — Courtesy of Mark & Graham

This personalized clutch shows that you care—she'll use it for everything from keeping small items organized in her tote to safekeeping travel documents when she's flying to your destination wedding. Choose from 13 different colors and two sizes, and make sure you add her monogram for an extra touch.

For more travel organizers and accessories, take a look at our round-up of the best travel accessories to buy for your honeymoon.

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Orange Umbrella Card Tie the Knot Card

This convenient set makes planning easy by including eight cards that are ready to send out to the lucky 'maids-to-be. A classic black and white palette and handwritten font make the cards feel both modern and classic.

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Milk Bar B'Day Truffles

It may not technically be her birthday, but these Milk Bar truffles will definitely make it feel like a celebration. There's a reason they have a cult following—they're delicious.

The 23 Best Bridesmaid Proposal Gifts

Now it's your turn to pop the question in style.

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