Traditionally, Hollywood relationships get a bad rap and this year’s slew of gut-wrenching celebrity splits haven’t exactly done much to help. But for every headline-making breakup, there are dozens of other celebrity couples out there who are making it work, and using the spotlight to show the rest of us how it’s done.
Take, for example, Kurt Russel and Goldie Hawn, who fell in love on the set of Swing Shift 35 years ago and have been together ever since. Or Jay-Z and Beyoncé, who have proven that love can endure despite its ups and downs. Or John Legend and Chrissy Teigen, who show us daily on social media (and every once in a while, via chart-topping songs) what #relationshipgoals really look like.
These couples—and many, many more—have shown us that the rom-com worthy onscreen love that most of us dream about is possible IRL. Read on as they share their best marriage advice, and spill their secrets for how its done.