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Exclusive: Actress Inbar Lavi and Dan Bar Shira's Burning Man-Inspired Beach Wedding in Israel

Planned by Steve Bar Productions and Vanessa Events.

Inbar Lavi, the singer, entrepreneur, and actress on the TV show "Lucifer," first met Dan Bar Shira, who works in green energy, in the sandy Nevada desert at the Burning Man festival in August 2019. Just over two years later on September 13, 2021, the pair reunited on the sandy beaches of their native Israel to exchange vows and celebrate their marriage with 400 of their family and friends. “We’re both Israeli and very connected to our roots,” shares Inbar of why they chose their venue of Al Hayam in Sdot Yam. “Our family lives here and we were raised by the Mediterranean, which made us who we are today."

While it may have been a large wedding, the bohemian beachside ceremony and the subsequent party—complete with light shows and three different DJs—brought together a mix of intimacy and tons of fun. “We met at Burning Man so we wanted our wedding to emulate a feeling of free-flow festival,” shares Inbar. “We also both love the beach so we knew it would have to have waves nearby.”

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“The theme was Tulum meets Burning Man meets a really good cocktail,” says Inbar with a laugh. “The color scheme was white. The goal was to have everyone together, so they can all float with us on the same cloud we were.”

The bride and groom hired an excellent team to make their festival-inspired dream wedding come to life. “We used producers Steve Bar Productions and Vanessa Events who helped us plan everything from A to Z,” says Inbar. “We had a very clear vision, and Steve and Vanessa got it right away. They made everything swift and smooth and always with a smile and good spirit. We'd be lost without them! Bless them!”

Ahead, explore Inbar and Dan's stunning white wedding full of fun, fire, and plenty of surprises, planned by Steve Bar Productions and Vanessa Events and photographed by People Photography.

Bride Inbar Lavi smiling with her eyes closed in a white robe getting her makeup done for her wedding day

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Bride Inbar Lavi smiling wearing a white one-shoulder wedding dress, chandelier earrings, and makeup

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While the dress code for all the guests was to wear white, Inbar wanted to create custom looks to help her shine and feel comfortable all night long. "To be honest, my stylist Shany Lasry really really helped with the dress,” explains Inbar. “I'm so lucky to have had her guidance throughout this journey. She introduced me to our wedding designer Daniella Hajaj.”

“Together we tried on a bunch of dresses in her studio and nothing felt right. Then, we just narrowed in on the fabric. Daniella said ‘Close your eyes, touch it, feel it. Is this what you want holding you?’ And, I knew chiffon was the fabric I wanted to be wrapped in on this day," shares the bride. "Daniella went to the back and brought out a massive roll of that fabric and started wrapping me in it. We literally crafted it on my body from scratch. It was amazing. We started pulling out strings and tying up ribbons until we found the design we all loved. It was so creative and free, which happens to be the spirit of the wedding.”

Bride Inbar Lavi posing in front of greenery in her white one-shoulder wedding dress with a slit

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For the first dress, the designers chose a clean chiffon fabric with an Italian crepe corset. She paired the looks of the day with jewelry by Efrat Cassuto. "For the first dress, we stayed on the clean line and we went with small classy pearl earrings which suit the look and the environment of the wedding," explains Inbar.

Groom Dan Bar Shira putting on a white suit jacket while getting ready for his wedding day

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Groom Dan Bar Shira wearing an all white suit getting ready for his wedding day

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Dan also had three looks of the day, styled by Shany Lasry and Ali Mohana. "They decided to go for neutral fabrics which complement the landscape's bright and festive colors," shares Inbar. The first look was a natural linen suit paired with beige Doc Martins and a YSL suede belt.

Groom Dan Bar Shira smiling in a white suit standing outside during the first look

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Groom Dan Bar Shira starting to turn around to his bride Inbar Lavi at the first look

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Black and white photo of groom Dan Bar Shira and bride Inbar Lavi during their first look on their wedding day

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Before festivities began, the couple decided to do a first look in front of close friends and family.

Groom Dan Bar Shira kissing his bride Inbar Lavi on the forehead on their wedding day

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Bride Inbar Lavi wearing a white one-shoulder wearing dress looking down at her bouquet on her wedding day

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Studio Galita, who did the floral design for the day, created a stunning neutral bouquet for the bride full of white roses and dried florals.

Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira walking side by side along a pavement path to the water on their wedding day

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Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira facing each other and smiling in front of the water on their wedding day

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Bride Inbar Lavi wrapping her arms around and pressing her forehead against her groom Dan Bar Shira in front of the water on their wedding day

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We love the beach, so it was natural to want to spend the day there.

Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira holding hands, smiling, and standing side by side alongside a cliff overlooking the ocean

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Before going to say "I do," the couple went to the seaside to take a few photos with the stunning natural backdrop. “We love the beach, so it was natural to want to spend the day there,” says Inbar.

Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira holding hands wearing sunglasses walking out of a house

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Inbar Lavi and Dan Bar Shira's wedding ceremony set up on the beach

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Inbar Lavi Dan Bar Shira's chuppah on the beach

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We wanted a chuppah that was a bit traditional, and a bit untraditional.

Inbar Lavi and Dan Bar Shira's dried floral decor alongside the aisle of their ceremony space on the beach

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“We chose to have the chuppah on the sand rather than in the actual venue," explains the bride of the ceremony décor. "We wanted a chuppah that was a bit traditional, and a bit untraditional. We wanted it to feel inclusive and respectful to all—to our roots, ourselves, and the holyland."

Flower children walking down the aisle of Inbar Lavi and Dan Bar Shira's wedding

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Before the bride and groom walked down the aisle, they had their youngest relatives go first. “We have a HUGE family," notes Inbar. "The flower girl and boy squad looked like a football team. We wouldn’t have had it any other way!”

Groom Dan Bar Shira holding the hands of his mom and dad as they walk down the aisle

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The back of bride Inbar Lavi holding the hands of her parents during the ceremony processional

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Bride Inbar Lavi smiling and holding the hands of her parents while walking down the aisle

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“We walked down the aisle to the sounds of Israeli music—some of our favorite classics," explains the bride, who processed to "Kol Hadvarim" by Daniella Spector. "The Hebrew language is my favorite language and it was important for me to walk down the aisle to the sounds of homeland natives.” 

Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira surrounded by family members all wearing white at the alter on their wedding day

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Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira standing at the alter on their wedding day

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She combined heart, soul, and humor in the most elegant way I could every hope for.

Groom Dan Bar Shira lifting the blusher of his bride Inbar Lavi

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“My best friend Tuna—Ofri Danon—married us and she crafted everything around us for the ceremony,” shares Inbar. "Tuna was the perfect combination of traditional and alternative, and she knows me better than anyone. She combined heart, soul, and humor in the most elegant way I could every hope for.”

Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira exchange rings at the alter on their wedding day

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Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira kiss at the alter as family member cheer around them on their wedding day

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Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira breaking the glass at the alter on their wedding day

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Bride Inbar Lavi raises a hand in the air as she kisses her groom Dan Bar Shira at the alter on their wedding day

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One of Inbar's favorite moments of the day? "Finally seeing it all come to life and breaking the glass in front of our family and friends with the sunset and the waves by us," she says.

Inbar Lavi and Dan Bar Shira's wedding reception space

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Inbar Lavi and Dan Bar Shira's wedding reception tablescape

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With a festival spirit in mind, the reception tables and décor flowed around the dance floor with comfortable seating, and beautiful flower-adorned tables. Woven material and warm tones were a highlight of the design.

Inbar Lavi and Dan Bar Shira's wedding reception decor

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Inbar Lavi and Dan Bar Shira's wedding day floral decor

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As for dinner? "The menu was prepared by Israel’s top chefs Erez Komorovsky and Hanan Azran," shares the bride. "[It] was built to be free style, light buffet style, spread out stations for all to enjoy at all times. We didn’t want it to feel like a sit-down meal. It was constant flow of endless light dishes floating around in harmony with the event and dance floor."

Groom Dan Bar Shira picks up his bride Inbar Lavi at their wedding ceremony space as the sun goes down

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Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira walk hand in hand on the lawn overlooking reception space on their wedding day

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Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira kiss during their first dance at the wedding reception

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"We merged our first dance with our parents and did a mash up,” says Inbar. “We started our solo first dance to the sounds of “I Can't Help Falling In Love With You” Ingrid Michaelson and continued to the OG Elvis Presley version dancing with the parents.”

Bride Inbar Lavi smiling and posing as guests lift her up on a table at the wedding reception

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Bride Inbar Lavi twirling in her party dress during the wedding reception

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As the party went into full swing, Inbar changed into her second look for the night. "When we arrived at Daniella Hagag, it was very important to us to create dresses that will fit the environment, the beach, with clean, classy, and sexy looks," notes the brides. "The second dress is a tulle fabric dress built on a lace base fabric and layers of contracted tulle."

Bride Inbar Lavi smiling at her groom Dan Bar Shira as they dance the night away at their wedding reception

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Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira kiss while being lifted up by a crowd of guests at their wedding reception

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“We love music so we had a few of our DJ friends come and perform for us which made the night extra special,” shares Inbar. “ALPHA MusicOmer Erlichman, _mishell_music, and Genish are all amazing DJ’s who came and brought life into the night.”

Black and white photobooth photo of bride Inbar Lavi and four girls in sparkly outfits

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"We had an amazing photo booth called The Photo Set which came and took the most amazing black and white photos for all of our guests to take home as souvenirs," adds the bride.

Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira being carried on their wedding day

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Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira recieving henna tattoos on their wedding day

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As a nod to Inbar's Moroccan heritage, the couple also had a henna ceremony later in the night performed by Meital Benda. “We were carried in by our family and friends to perform the traditional ceremony of henna with Moroccan drum circle and costumes,” says Inbar.

Bride Inbar Lavi and groom Dan Bar Shira kissing on their wedding day surrounded by a live band

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For her third custom look, Inbar donned a dress with a long slit made from a mesh fabric intertwined with Swarovski stones.

Her advice for fellow brides? Get a planner. "There are so many details that go into the planning, things you would never think of! The experience of a planner is invaluable," she says. "They know where to spend to make the biggest impact, and how to avoid waste. Steve and Vanessa are always a few steps ahead of the game, with various solutions to anything that comes up. The best part is that they are always coming up with fun ideas to make the experience unique and magical!" 

Bride Inbar Lavi with fire

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Bride Inbar Lavi with fire

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Of course, the party didn't end there! Inbar and Dan put on final looks to dance the night away at an after party full of electronic music and even a fire show. Inbar described it all in one word: "Epic."

Wedding Team

Ceremony Venue Al Hayam

Planner Steve Bar Productions and Vanessa Events

Officiant Ofri Danon

Stylist Shany Lasry

Bridal Gown Designer Daniella Hajaj

Hair Guy Samuel

Makeup Ortal Elimelech

Groom’s Attire Desert

Engagement Ring Merkaba Jewelry

Alcohol IbblsBelvedere, and Lumina

Floral Design Studio Galita

Invitations Hadar Gabizon

Music ALPHA MusicOmer Erlichman, _mishell_music, and Genish

Catering Erez & Hanan Catering

Rentals Caesar Furniture 

Accommodations Casa Venessa, Hotel Bobo, and Nachsolim Hotel

Henna Production Meital Benda

Photo Booth The Photo Set

Light & Sound Albert Erba

Videography People Photography

Photography People Photography

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