The Best Wedding Venues in San Diego

Valet guest parking, bridal suite, sparkler send-off

According to clients and wedding planners, The Westin Carlsbad Resort Hotel & Spa hits the mark every time with seamless service, customized menus (with accommodations for a range of dietary restrictions and preferences), and onsite guest accommodations. “The service has always been impeccable,” says Diana Romero of At Your Side Planning. “The outdoor ceremony location is exquisite and the day of is always very smooth.” Plus the coastal views can’t be beat. 

The resort—part of Marriott International—hosts upwards of 1,000 people and its staff can help bring to life a custom event, from large signage to a sparkler sendoff. Its location in northern San Diego County means proximity to attractions like Legoland, The Flower Fields, The Crossings at Carlsbad (an 18-hole golf course), Carlsbad Village’s restaurants and bars, and the city’s beaches are easily accessible.

Intimate tropical garden with koi pond, elegant ballrooms with neutral decor and floor-to-ceiling windows

For a wedding in chic La Jolla with indoor and outdoor space, a dedicated coordinator, and guest accommodations onsite without completely breaking the bank consider Sheraton La Jolla, now part of Marriott International. While the property is located outside of downtown La Jolla and further from the ocean, previous wedding guests point to highlights like the tropical garden ceremony space with a koi pond, elegant ballrooms with floor-to-ceiling windows, and a responsive coordination team. 

Its spaces hold up to 250 people. The hotel includes two fine-dining restaurants, a fitness center, a heated outdoor pool surrounded by palm trees, and a waterfall feature.

Estate-grown, award-winning wine; wine cave; crush house; stone patio

Milagro Winery makes for a romantic, outdoor wedding venue. Couples typically say their vows beneath expressive oak trees before moving to the stone patio for the reception. Depending on guest count and in the event of rain, the wine cave and crush house may serve as an alternative, or tents can be rented. Among its visually interesting elements are sweeping views of vineyards and meadows, as well as unique spaces including a wine cave, a Tuscan-style crush house, and a stone patio that gives off intimate vibes when lit up with market lights. 

Reviews consistently give the venue’s wedding planning staff top marks for organization and communication. Rentals range from $5,700-$9,500. While there is a minimum wine buyout, clients are welcome to bring in outside wine for a per bottle corkage fee.

While its rural, natural setting transports guests out of the hustle and bustle of city life, note that unless guests book an Airbnb or vacation rental in Ramona or the neighboring mountain town of Julian, they’ll need to travel nearly an hour back to San Diego to bed down.

Milagro Winery’s 110-acre property is also host to fruit and nut orchards, an organic farm, hiking, and equestrian trails.

Garden with a koi pond, bamboo, bonzai, footbridges; free guest parking

Among the Garden’s Japanese-inspired features are koi ponds, waterfalls, bonsai, bamboo, and cherry trees. An upper-level garden includes a moon-viewing deck and outdoor reception area, while the lower garden features an indoor pavilion with wraparound deck and sliding shōji partitions that bridge the indoors with the out. 

The Japanese Friendship Garden is located within Balboa Park. As one of San Diego’s most historic (host of 1915’s Panama-California exposition) and top attractions, it counts 17 museums and cultural institutions, more than 15 gardens, and it's home to the San Diego Zoo.

Note that since the Garden is also a museum, private events are restricted to just several each year, so plan to book far in advance to secure this venue. Discounts off hourly rental rates are available for active or retired military members. This venue accommodates up to 200 guests, and minimonies for up to 30 guests happen Monday through Thursday. Rentals begin at $700 per hour.

Industrial-chic interiors, all-inclusive packages

Weddings of less than 100 guests are frequently booked at FruitCraft Fermentery and Distillery, which is located in San Diego’s Hillcrest neighborhood—meaning easy access to the airport, and major attractions like Balboa Park, as well as a number of hotel options downtown for all budget levels.

Couples appreciate that the dynamic, plant-filled space (which includes live-edge wooden tables, artsy lighting made from upcycled wine bottles) don't need much decor. They also give props for inclusive catering options and delicious drinks from the distillery itself. Audio equipment, linens, and china are available, too.

Spaces include a private outdoor patio surrounded by tropical greenery, and its indoor tasting room features high ceilings and exposed beams.

AV/sound system, day-of coordinator, floor-to-ceiling windows open for indoor/outdoor access

The modern building—a mix of wood, concrete, and steel—belies its warm interiors, which include enough space for a dance floor, a small band, and a photo booth area. Its location in La Jolla means guests are near a number of hotels like La Valencia, Estancia, and The Lodge at Torrey Pines. Beyond the beach, Scripps Seaside Forum is located close to the restaurant scene in La Jolla Village and Torrey Pines State Reserve’s hiking and walking trails.

Note that Scripps Seaside Forum schedules weddings on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays only. Rentals begin at $7,500 for the entire space.

Main ballroom with 300-square-foot stage; three outdoor patios, including two with ocean views; dressing room

The Thursday Club offers private, intimate weddings with ocean views, a garden ceremony setting, and an indoor clubhouse to hold a reception. Rates range from $3,500 for weekday venue rental to $5,300 for a weekend and include use of the entire property, tables, and chairs. Its location in Point Loma near downtown San Diego is close enough to the city without being in the middle of it.

What The Thursday Club lacks in dedicated guest parking and extended hours it makes up for in an intimate venue that includes a private, landscaped ceremony garden (think water features, trellises, winding paths), a balcony with ocean views, and a clubhouse featuring original wood floors, French doors, chandeliers, stained-glass windows, and Spanish architectural touches and finishes.

This venue accommodates 150 people (175 without a dance floor) and is available for booking up to two years in advance. Lighting packages are also available.

Historic spaces with original architectural details, modern furnishings, dedicated event coordinators, restaurant-style banquet menus

What was once a YMCA for the Armed Services was reintroduced to San Diego in 2019 as The Guild Hotel, a member of Marriott’s Tribute portfolio. There are several spaces to choose from, including an urban garden ideal for ceremonies and cocktail hour for around 500, and the YMCA’s former basketball court-turned Grace Ballroom for up to 200.

The Guild offers wedding packages may include cocktail reception appetizers, three-course dinner, and a Champagne toast. 

The hotel is located in Downtown San Diego, with San Diego Bay, Petco Park, and Coronado Island nearby.