The 17 Best 23rd Anniversary Gifts That Will Make Your Partner Swoon

From sparkly silver to special personalized gifts

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If you’re coming up on 23 years of marriage together, it’s certainly something to celebrate. You'll want to find the perfect gift for your partner to commemorate the big day–after 23 years, you've surely come up with many clever gift ideas. Looking for something new? We’ve got you covered.

The traditional and modern gift for a 23rd anniversary is silver-plate, which can apply to a whole range of household products and accessories. You can certainly follow the theme, choosing a silver-plated gift such as barware, a picture frame, or jewelry, or you might choose to come up with something more out-of-the-box. From foodie gifts to custom home goods, the options are endless.

Read on for the best 23rd anniversary gift ideas.

Vintage Garden Art Cheese Markers

cheese markers

Courtesy of Etsy

For the partner who’s charcuterie and cheese board-obsessed, this is the ultimate gift. These cute cheese markers come in a set of six and are hand-stamped with their favorite cheese varieties. For a touch of creative whimsy (and sustainability!), the pieces are crafted from recycled forks.

Mark & Graham Beaded Silver And Walnut Wood Cheese Board

Mark & Graham Beaded Silver And Walnut Wood Cheese Board

Courtesy of Mark & Graham

This is the perfect platter for those who love to host at home. It’s personalized with an engraved monogram and made with Caribbean walnut wood for long-lasting durability. The silver beading around the border dresses up the rustic charm of the natural wood.

Uncommon Goods Personalized Whiskey Barrel

Uncommon Goods Personalized Whiskey Barrel

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Are they big fans of whiskey? Now they can age their own. This personalized oak barrel can be used to age whiskey or rum, or even to age a whiskey-based batch cocktail to add more depth to your blend.

Nambé Silver Love Bowl

Nambé Silver Love Bowl

Courtesy of Saks Fifth Ave

Add a new statement piece—with a dose of sweet sentiment—to your home. This softly sculpted alloy bowl is a modern interpretation of the classic heart shape. It’s also useful and is perfect for serving both hot or cold dishes. 

Crate & Barrel Silver Barware Set

Crate & Barrel Silver Barware Set

Courtesy of Crate & Barrel

Revamp the home bar with a set that does it all. Featuring an ice bucket, bottle opener, jigger, stirring spoon, strainer, ice scoop, and muddler, it has everything needed to whip up celebratory cocktails for your anniversary (and beyond!). 

Morning Joy Co Recipe Cutting Board

MorningJoyCo Recipe Cutting Board

Courtesy of Etsy

Calling all foodies! Do they have a treasured recipe that's a family favorite? This maker will carve the handwritten recipe onto the surface of a board, making it one-of-a-kind gift that they'll have (and use!) forever.

Pendleton Personalized National Park Blanket

Pendleton Personalized National Park Blanket

Courtesy of Mark & Graham

Cozy up with a classic. Pendleton blankets are known for their durability and comfort, not to mention gorgeous design. Now, you can gift a customized version— monogram it with your loved one's initials for a special, personalized touch. 

Mala The Brand Wood Wick Candle

Mala The Brand Wood Wick Candle

Courtesy of Nordstrom

For the outdoors lover, bring the sound of a fire inside for them to enjoy any time. This clean-burning soy wax candle boasts a wood wick, which crackles as it burns. Plus, it smells like evergreen, moss, and cypress for a lovely forest-inspired scent.

Anthropologie Silver Wine Rack

Anthropologie Silver Wine Rack

Courtesy of Anthropologie

For the wine lover, this sculptural rack is the perfect option for storing and organizing their prized collection. With room for six bottles, it’s a gorgeous statement piece to put on display to highlight their favorite wines. 

Be Home Monogram Coasters

Be Home Monogram Coasters, Set of 4

Courtesy of Be Home

In addition to keeping surfaces safe, a set of pretty coasters can also double as home décor. These marble ones are dressed up with shiny brass letters—your spouse will feel extra-fancy as they serve up cocktails to guests.

Pepper Palm Handmade Planter

PepperPalm Handmade Planter

Courtesy of Etsy

Treat the plant lover in your life to something that will brighten up their desk (and their day!). This eye-catching planter is handmade in Nashville and is ready to make a statement wherever they choose to place it. Bonus points if you gift it with a new plant already potted in it! 

Anthropologie Lustered Coupe Glasses

Anthropologie Lustered Coupe Glasses, Set of 4

Courtesy of Anthropologie

Add a little shimmer to your celebration. These luster coupe glasses are designed with textured glass that beautifully reflects light. They’re just waiting to be used for a celebratory cocktail toast on the evening of your anniversary.

Brooklinen Super Plush Towels

Brooklinen Super Plush Towels

Courtesy of Brooklinen

After 23 years together, it may be time to treat each other to some new towels—and why not go for luxury? These super-soft ones make you feel like you’re visiting a spa every morning. Bonus: they come in 12 different colors, so it's easy to find the perfect hue for your bathroom.

Williams Sonoma Honeycomb Mugs

Williams Sonoma Honeycomb Mugs

Courtesy of Williams Sonoma

Show your honey just how much you love them with a new set of mugs for your morning coffee together. These adorable honeycomb mugs are the perfect balance of cozy vibes and elegant design. They're painted with sparkly 18K gold, so it's a gift that feels special. 

Uncommon Goods Head-To-Toe Home Spa Gift Set

Uncommon Goods Head-To-Toe Home Spa Gift Set

Courtesy of Uncommon Goods

You can never go wrong with a gift that promotes relaxation and self-care. They'll appreciate the encouragement to slow down and treat themselves! This at-home spa set includes body scrub, foot salts, a clay facial mask, foot cream, and lotion for ultimate pampering. 

Monica Vinader Linear Solo Diamond Pendant Necklace

Monica Vinader Linear Solo Diamond Pendant Necklace

Courtesy of Nordstrom

You certainly can’t go wrong with a gorgeous piece of jewelry for any occasion. This sterling silver pendant showcases a pavé diamond in the center. It's a stunning piece that goes with everything.

Charbonnel et Walker Pink Marc de Champagne Truffles

Charbonnel et Walker Pink Marc de Champagne Truffles

Courtesy of Bloomingdales

Say “cheers” to your big day with something sweet! Gift a pretty pink box of champagne-flavor truffles as the ultimate treat. These confections are handcrafted by master chocolatiers and shipped from the U.K. Pair them with a bottle of sparkling wine for a delicious date night treat

What to look for in a 23rd anniversary gift

The traditional and modern gift, silver plate

The 23rd-anniversary gift, both in the traditional and modern sense, is silver plate. That can be interpreted in a variety of ways to include silver dinnerware, barware, jewelry, and more. But it's also ok—and even encouraged—to stray from the theme if it means gifting your spouse something that's truly meaningful to them.

Psychotherapist and relationship expert Esther Perel recommends gifts that bring in new energy “I like generative gifts that bring in novelty but still rest on the stability of the past," she says. "Make sure to also add in something fresh and new for the future.”

FAQ
  • What are some other creative anniversary ideas?

    If you’d prefer to select a gift that’s incredibly meaningful to you and your partner, or that offers an experience, you may choose to stray from the theme. “Think of gifts that drive a renewed attention to one another: a set of silver-colored bikes instead of a silver plate; a piece of art, or an immersive art experience; or perhaps a series of cooking classes that will reinvigorate what happens at the dining table every night for the next year,” suggests Perel.

  • Do I have to follow the traditional and modern gift etiquette for an anniversary?

    Don’t be afraid to stray from traditional and modern gift ideas. For some couples, it may be the best choice. “Tradition and etiquette were great when we were only married for 20 years, but when marriage lasts 40, 50, 60 years, what we want is to be surprised. The best thing about tradition and etiquette is the opportunity to break the rules and ‘infuse it with personal meaning’ as Priya Parker says,” says Perel. 

Meet the Expert

Esther Perel is a Belgian psychotherapist, relationship expert, podcast host, and the New York Times bestselling author of The State of Affairs and Mating in Captivity

Why Trust Brides

Brides contributor Molly Allen is a former small business owner with years of experience in the lifestyle and wedding industries, with a focus on parties, entertaining, food, and beverage. She is dedicated to searching for high-quality, beautiful, and unique products that will bring a smile to any recipient’s face. 

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