Spending time with a significant other at home is intimate, especially without the intrusion of a waiter, friends, or the world at large. If you’re in a new relationship, this phase can be exhilarating as well as a bit intimidating. And if you’ve been around your plus-one for a while, then you already know how relaxing this chapter can be as well. We often think that dates need some sort of production quality to them and that such occasions have to take place beyond a home’s comfortable cocoon, but why not see how much fun you can have on an at-home date?
We put together a list of 32 at-home date ideas—whether you have one hour, several, or the whole day to spare, you can make this intimate space a larger part of your romantic memories.
Make a Really Good Cup of Coffee Together
What better way to start your day than with a little romance? Break out the Chemex (or the bougie tea selection) and put some true effort into that morning brew with your honey.
Enjoy a Phone-Free Meal
Leave your distracting phones in the other room or employ the help of accountability apps like Forest, and really connect. Whether you cook or order in, you'll enjoy deeper conversation without your phones constantly interrupting. You'll be amazed at where the conversation can go when you're both fully engaged in the dialogue.
Make phone-free dinner a habit. That way you can connect with your partner any day of the week.
Have a Conversation That Isn’t About Work, Stress, or To-Do Lists
Get to know each other on a deeper level. Be intentional with your conversation and leave any superficial stressors at the door. For extra inspiration, try using couples' conversation cards to guide the discussion to all-new depths.
Stay in Bed
Seriously, when was the last time you two let yourselves relax in bed before jumping up to get things done? Have a proper lay-in and really luxuriate in your time between the sheets. Elevate the experience by investing in plush bedding and scents that create the ambiance of your, well, dreams.
Put a Puzzle Together
You fit like two pieces of a puzzle, but let's see how you fare at putting one together. See if you can tackle 1,000 pieces in hour-long stretches. Or, if you have the time (and willpower), bang it all out in one day.
Enjoy Breakfast in Bed
We all have those days where we want to stay in bed all day long. Why not make a date out of it? Whip up breakfast together and bring your plates back to the bedroom and dine under the covers. Life-changing tip: Try dinner in bed, too.
Curl up together and open those books you’ve been meaning to get to. Not all meaningful dates involve conversation, but you'll have plenty to talk about after your reads. You can even start a book club for just the two of you. Make a list of your all-time favorite books, pepper in some new releases, and carve out time to discuss.
Add relationship books to your read-list, too. Highlight parts that resonate or things you'd like to try, and have a discussion together.
Set Up a Spa in the Living Room
Nothing beats a day of self-care. Play spa music, wear face masks, light candles, and whip up some infused water or pour Champagne to set the tone. You can purchase aromatic oils and give each other massages, or up the ante by hiring a masseuse to come to your home.
Take a Yoga Class
Stream YouTube in your living room (or backyard). Depending on your energy levels, choose from relaxing yin sessions or more active flows. End the practice with a meditation to set your intentions for the rest of the date. Pro tip: Pick up some cute activewear ahead of time.
Go for a Run Around the Neighborhood
Okay, technically this isn’t entirely at home. But you can designate a “finish line” at your front steps and stretch in the living room after. We recommend creating a shared playlist to get you pumped as you hit the pavement.
Chat on Your Porch
If you're lucky enough to have a porch or deck, take advantage and get some fresh air with your date. If you live in a city, a stoop or rooftop will work, too! Grab some wine or snacks, and make a picnic out of it. You might be amazed at how much you notice about your neighborhood.
Watch a Comedy Special
Nothing is better than seeing your loved one laugh. Bonus: It can help mitigate any awkwardness if your relationship is still in the early stages. Netflix is an absolute gold mine for comedy specials—you might even gain a few inside jokes.
Perfect Your Cornhole Skills
Two people are all you need for a night of friendly competition. Practice makes perfect with a backyard set, but you can play indoors, too. Up the ante with a little wager like, "Winner gets to choose the takeout place for dinner." Keep things fun with wagers that add value and extend the date rather than appointing chores. ("Loser does laundry.")
Create the Perfect Playlist
Have a dance party in your living room. (Be sure to include one slow song!) Make it extra romantic by curating a playlist of significant songs throughout your relationship, and let all the feels take over.
Install Flower Boxes in the Windows
Not only is this date fun, but it's also functional. The best part? You get to watch the labors of your love grow in tandem with your relationship.
Have a Picnic
Spread out a blanket and serve the ultimate cheese board—it works even in your living room. Light candles to set the mood. If cheese doesn't get you going, substitute with your favorite takeout instead.
Dress Up for a Fancy Dinner
That just so happens to be waiting in your kitchen. Dressing the part for a special date night will not only make you feel more confident but further highlight the fact that this isn't just any regular dinner at home. If you cook it together ahead of time, you'll have even more time to bond.
Paint and Sip
Buy a couple of canvases and some paint, and then pop open your favorite bottle. Bonus points for crafting a fruit bowl as the painting subject, too. There are plenty of ways to make this date-night idea a little spicier, but we'll let your imagination take the wheel.
Set Up a Projector in the Backyard
Watch your favorite movie under the stars. Or play your wedding video or a montage of clips you've taken together. Combine with the aforementioned fort for even more fun.
Cook a Meal From One of Your Favorite Trips
Make homemade pasta based on a beloved vacation in Italy or tacos from a recent California getaway. It may not taste exact, but it'll bring all the happy memories back. Complete the scene by playing on-theme music and even dressing the part.
Create a Gallery Wall
Finally print out your favorite photos and arrange them with framed concert tickets, letters, and other mementos. It can serve as the ultimate scrapbook of your relationship, and you'll relive every moment together as you put them up.
Have a Movie Marathon
In lieu of the usual Netflix session, grab the remote and watch an entire movie series instead. Crank out Harry Potter, Star Wars, The Avengers, or Pirates of the Caribbean, just to name a few—nothing wrong with rewatching old favorites!
Learn a New Skill Together
Learn to play one song on a guitar, knit a square for a future scarf, perfect your knife skills, or even learn a fun magic trick. There are tons of virtual classes you can take together and have ongoing date nights for the duration of the course. Plus, you're guaranteed to get some laughs out of it.
Eat Pizza in Bed
Pizza is always a good idea; eating it in bed in your robes is even better. We'd recommend your favorite takeout pie for this one. Something about a greasy slice in bed just hits differently from an artisanal type.
Take a Virtual Vacation
Nothing beats traveling with your partner, but if you're stuck in your hometown, you can still satisfy that wanderlust. Reminisce on vacations past or start planning your next trip. Life hack: Your brain produces the same mood-boosting chemicals when planning a trip as actually going on one.
Order In for Dinner
Give takeout an upgrade. Instead of the classic pizza or Chinese food delivery, opt for a high-class spread from an upscale restaurant. Order a few appetizers, entrees, and sides—and don't forget about dessert!
Recreate Your First Date
If you can't revisit the place where your romance began, you can replicate it! Did your first date happen over after-work drinks? When the clock strikes 5 p.m., get your S.O. in the kitchen and sip the same drinks you bonded over before. Or maybe you chatted over tacos and margaritas—put that on the menu!
Conduct a Beer or Wine Tasting
You don't need to visit a brewery to get your craft beer fix! Buy a few bottles of beer or wine and pour your own flights. You may just discover a new favorite brew from the comfort of your own home.