Not into all the fanfare that accompanies a formal wedding? Freaked out by triple-digit guest lists? Turned off by the 12-piece orchestra, the endless receiving line, the garter toss? If this describes you, then the unwedding may be just your thing. It’s a modern celebration that kicks off this new chapter of life with a fantastic menu, good wines, and spirited conversation, but keeps the standard wedding hoopla to a minimum. Our afternoon reception at New York’s Fig & Olive restaurant proves that a successful wedding, like a good marriage, is all about having everything you want—and nothing you don’t.