It’s courteous to host a post-wedding brunch for out-of-town guests, especially for those who have traveled great distances. We prefer these events to be relaxed, informal and set to a come-and-go-as-you-please pace, which is why we like the Four Seasons Hotel in Boston, 200 Boylston St., 617-338-4400, fourseasons.com/boston. There are several locations and serving styles—choose from a continental breakfast to a cooked-to-order omelet station, as well as mimosas and heart-shaped pancakes. The hotel staff will also remind guests about the event the day before. For guests who don’t have time to stay and chat, the hotel will prepare to-go boxes filled with goodies.