Chelsea Clinton's planner and a celebrity favorite, Bryan Rafanelli has merrymaking down to a science.

Tradition that should come back: Giving each guest a piece of cake to place under their pillow at night

Favorite wedding clichés: The choreographed first dance, if it's a complete surprise to the guests and not a waltz. Do the Tango or Cha Cha. I'm also pro-bridal party.

Photo: Philip Gabriel Photography