Say thank you by throwing a fabulous fete with custom cocktails and gourmet goodies

Bowling-bag purse, $14; Plum Party, plumparty.com. Pink cocktail shaker, $55; Julia Knight, juliaknight.net. Rimmer, $5.95; Stirrings, stirrings.com. Paper cocktail cards, $24 for 30 assorted; Dream Graphics, dreamgraphics.com. Chiseled Pinkglass, $24.99 per pair; After 5, after5catalog.com. Mini heart, $40 for set of 4; Soizick, georgewatts.com.