Say thank you by throwing a fabulous fete with custom cocktails and gourmet goodies

Celebrity mixologist Alex Ott blends a personalized beverage for each bridesmaid. Gibson pitcher, $29.95; Hammered oval bowl, $29.95; rectangular server, $22.95; Ona pitcher, $24.95; Athena candleholder, $24.95; all, Crate & Barrel, crateandbarrel.com. Stainless steel and glass Boston Shaker, $40; WMF. Stainless steel cocktail strainer, $7.95; Crate & Barrel, crateandbarrel.com.