How to man up a boutonniere? Taylor Patterson (of Fox Fodder Farm) adds suede, bark, brass, and animal feathers.

"I love this gray-moth hue and the pulsatilla's feathery flair. It has the fuzziness of a dandelion, but it's not as fragile."

Boutonniere of pulsatilla, scabiosa, and smoke bush, $22, Fox Fodder Farm.

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