Q: I was married by a justice of the peace in 1994. Now that we're older and can afford it, I'd like to have a formal wedding with the works. Can I wear a white dress with a train and a veil? Do we have to hold the ceremony on our anniversary? And how do we tell guests that we don't expect gifts?
Q: I'm getting married for the second time, though it's my fiancÚ's first marriage. I feel funny wearing white, but can we still have a decent-size wedding? His family's so excited about the wedding, and I don't want to disappoint them.