Q: I adore chocolate but my fiancé is highly allergic to it. Can we have two wedding cakes?

A: Absolutely. In fact, you can give a nod to tradition and have both a bride's cake (with chocolate layers and fillings) and a groom's cake featuring his favorite flavor combination.

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