Q: We're having a cupcake wedding cake. Do we cut into a cupcake together or skip the custom?

A: If you still want to have a "cake moment," you and your husband can each hold your own cupcake and take a small nibble (don't put them back!). Alternatively, you can purchase a small round cake to cut into for photos.

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