Q: Can my dad and the groom's father both wear tuxedos with shawl collars, while the ushers wear peak-collared tuxes?

A: No problem. Here's the rule: While the bridal party's tuxedos don't all have to be the same style, they should be the same color (presumably, black). So the dads can do their own thing while the rest of the guys sport a uniform style.

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