Q: My groom doesn't want to wear a boutonniere. Is there some other way he can decorate his tuxedo jacket?

A: Don't worry if your fiancé's not feelin' the flower power. He can spruce up his ensemble with a silk pocket square (it can even coordinate with your wedding colors) or a stickpin with a standout stone.

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