A: While the "dinner" can be anything from a five-course meal at a restaurant to, yes, pizza and bowling, it's the host's responsibility to think of guests' comfort. In your case, try this compromise: Have a casual supper right after the rehearsal for close family and friends, followed by bowling for anyone who's up for a few frames.
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