Q: Is it rude to keep our honeymoon location a secret?

A: Oh, the relentless paparazzi. What's a couple to do? Seriously, even non-celebs may have friends, relatives, or co-workers who will track them down during their postnuptial trip, even if it means calling every hotel on Maui. It's fine to keep mum about your plans—but do leave contact information with a trusted person for emergencies. That way, if your loved ones need to get in touch, they can try him first. (Ask him to do a little gatekeeping before he spills the beans.) Then spread out those towels and revel in some well earned anonymity.

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