Whether a friend spilled the beans or your boyfriend gave you the heads-up himself, you have every reason to believe he'll be down on bended knee soon enough. With a proposal just around the corner, here are seven smart things you might want to do.
1. Plan for your wedding plans.
"Depending on when your love pops the question, and when your dream wedding will take place, there may not be very much time to actually plan for it, "explains Kelly Heyn, owner of Social Life Event Planning in New Jersey. Because many venues and vendors book up to a year in advance, it's smart to start selecting on the sly whom you might want to approach once you can officially begin planning. "Don't book anything until you are actually engaged," she cautions, "but it doesn't hurt to start looking!"
2. Drop hints about the ring you want.
If you think he's begun his ring search and you're dying for a very specific diamond, you might consider letting him know by sharing your Pinterest password or asking a friend to help him find The One. "Most women have a clear idea of what her perfect engagement ring looks like, but many guys do not have a clue as to what this is when it comes time to start the shopping," Heyn says.
3. Get your ring finger sized.
"In this case, size also matters," Heyn points out. "There is nothing worse than being asked that important question, and then not being able to wear the ring after because it is too large or too small." Drop by a jeweler who can accurately size your finger, so you'll be ready to provide the right number should your partner ask.
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4. Repeat after us: Relax!
Is the anticipation of his proposal killing you? "The best thing you can do is take a few deep breaths," says Rachel Needle, clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist based in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. "You don't want to build the moment up in your head or create expectations, because then you are just setting yourself up for disappointment for what should be a happy moment regardless of how it unfolds."
5. Go with the flow.
You may not feel like going to dinner tonight, but think twice before you say no to his date-night-out idea. Try to "go with whatever plans he makes," Needle says. "If you start saying something like, 'I don't feel like going to that restaurant tonight,' you might be creating challenges to his proposal plan."
6. Initiate some big talks.
Now's the time to start talking about children — think: if you want them and how you will raise them, values, religion, how you want to model behavior or discipline them — as well as "where you will live, your goals and dreams, how you will handle money issues, and what's important to you," says Needle, so that you can truly assess whether you're compatible for life.
7. And don't forget to talk about the proposal itself, too.
No, you don't want to ruin any surprises. But if certain traditions are important to you, such as your boyfriend getting your parent's blessing or this priceless moment being photographed by a pro, you should let him know. "Don't be afraid to talk about this stuff," Heyn says. "This moment only happens once in a lifetime and it is something that most women have dreamed about since they were little girls. If you have some sort of expectation, make it known!"