Registry Etiquette
- Question:
My maid of honor hasn’t given us a gift, and the wedding was a year ago. Should I say something?
- Answer:
Don't even think about it. Going to a wedding doesn't obligate anyone to give a gift, and as the person in question was part of your bridal party (which often entails buying a special outfit, throwing a bachelorette party, etc.), she's probably already spent considerable cash on your wedding. So cool it. Whatever reason she has for skipping a gift—financial, emotional, whatever—is her business. You're much better off maintaining a friendship than stirring up trouble about a phantom toaster.
- This content originally appeared in Brides magazine.
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- Can I register at local boutiques?
- Should I register for expensive items?
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- Must I register for champagne flutes?
- Can I send registry cards with my invitations?
- Do we need to wait until thank-you notes are sent to our guests before depositing their checks?
- Is it OK to register for gifts for a second (or third) wedding?
- Must thank-you cards be signed by bride and groom?
- How many gifts do I register for?
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- Is it OK to bring gifts to the reception?
- Can I change my registered china pattern?
- How do we ask for cash gifts?
