Registry Etiquette
- Question:
- What is the best way to thank a guest who sends a check?
- Answer:
Every gift should be acknowledged with a thoughtful note. For guests who give money, tell them what you expect to spend it on: "Thank you so much for your gift. We're planning to use it to complete our stemware set, and we'll think of you when we make a toast to good friends." Don't mention the specific dollar amount, and avoid notes that sound like form letters. And send your note in a timely manner—it should arrive before the canceled check.
- This content originally appeared in Brides magazine.
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- Can we register for a courthouse ceremony?
- How should our table linen monogram look?
- To whom do we send our registry info?
- Can I choose china from my 1st wedding?
- When must the thank-yous be sent?
- Can we return gifts?
- Can we ask my fiancé's guests not to give gifts?
- Can we register for a mortgage?
- Does the maid of honor have to give us a gift?
- When do we open and close the registry?
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- How do you say thanks for a check?
- Can I register at local boutiques?
- Should I register for expensive items?
- Is it OK to register for wine?
- Must I register for champagne flutes?
- Can I send registry cards with my invitations?
- Do we need to wait until thank-you notes are sent to our guests before depositing their checks?
- Is it OK to register for gifts for a second (or third) wedding?
- Must thank-you cards be signed by bride and groom?
- How many gifts do I register for?
- Should I register for a themed shower?
- Is it OK to bring gifts to the reception?
- Can I change my registered china pattern?
- How do we ask for cash gifts?
