Showers & Parties Etiquette
- Question:
- I'm having three different showers and the hostesses are asking me about guest lists. Can I invite the same friends to more than one party?
- Answer:
Since a shower invitation requires a gift, it's best not to invite someone to more than one. (The exceptions are your bridesmaids, who are generally invited to all showers, with the understanding that they'renot expected to bring a present to each.) One solution: Ask the hostesses to "merge" the showers. That way, no one will feel left out or putout.
- This content originally appeared in Brides magazine.
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- Should we invite out-of-town family to the shower?
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- Can I ask the best man to organize a bachelor party for my fiancé?
- Do I have to open gifts at the shower?
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- When should I host my bridesmaids' lunch?
- Should we have an engagement party?
- How formal is rehearsal dinner dress?
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- Are rehearsal dinners mandatory?
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