Family, Friends & Guests Etiquette
- Question:
My mom is happy I’m getting married, but sad because she says we won’t be as close as we are now. Will marriage actually change our relationship that much?
- Answer:
In a word: maybe. Growing up creates a fundamental shift in the parent-child relationship. A parent goes from being the numero uno cheerleader and nurturer, involved in your day-to-day life, to taking a backseat when you fall in love and marry. For some parents, this can be a difficult transition. Tell your mom how much you love her and that you want to make sure she continues to be an important part of your life. Set up regular lunch dates or, if she’s far away, phone dates. You’ll both look forward to the get-togethers, and you may find your conversations becoming even deeper as you address the ups and downs of married life.
- This content originally appeared in Brides magazine.
