Budget Etiquette
- Question:
- We have a lot of family members coming from out of town for our wedding. Are we supposed to pay for their hotel rooms? What if they're in the wedding party?
- Answer:
All guests and attendants (even family) usually pay for their own accommodations. You can help them out, though, by calling around to local hotels and asking about getting a discounted rate if you reserve a block of rooms.
- This content originally appeared in Brides magazine.
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- How can I get my fiancé to be more involved in the wedding planning?
- How much are we supposed to tip, and when?
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- How can my poorer guy and I split wedding costs?
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- How do I thank those who've helped?
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