Budget Etiquette
- Question:
- Am I required to pay for accommodations for my out-of-town bridesmaids? I was planning to get one room for my bridesmaids to share (there's four of them) but two of them think they should get their own rooms because they're bringing their boyfriends. Do I have to pay for their guest, too?
- Answer:
You should offer your out-of-town bridesmaids a place to stay, whether it's your aunt's fold-out couch or a suite for four at a hotel. If they don't like your offer, they'll have to pay for their own accommodations.
- This content originally appeared in Modern Bride magazine.
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