Well, myself Im on the patch. Its not for everyone, but it has worked great for me so far. However, with the recent warnings on it about strokes, Im going in next month to talk to the OB about other possibilities. As for you, maybe try a low hormone pill, like Ortho-lo. Or better yet, just go for something without any hormones in it. I think the Nuva Ring is hormone free...I could be wrong as Im not very familiar with it. These are just a few suggestions. It definately sounds like you need something with low or no hormones though. A good friend of mine had the exact symptoms you were describing. Almost every pill she tried had the same effect, irritable and bleeding for 18 to 20 days....could be why she was irritable though. Anyway, she is able to use Ortho-lo without all of the crazy attached side effects. Hope this helps a little. Im sure there are others here who can offer more advice. Best of luck in your search. If I find out about anything new at my appointment next month, Ill be sure to let you know.
Norinyl is okay but I get cramps sometimes. 
