I dont think I should give this ring back...........

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PharmToxGirl Posts : 5,446 Registered: 8/30/07
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Posted: Jun 11, 2009 12:31 PM Go to message in response to: ginmal

Ah Gin it's so lovely to see you when you pop back in on the boards.

 

 

 

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BlackstoneSkinner Posts : 38 Registered: 5/14/09
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Posted: Jun 11, 2009 1:45 PM Go to message in response to: Priv8joy

Sister! Let me tell ya, do not feel like you are the only girl going through this and don't listen to the others saying this is strange because it happens all of the time! Jealousy is a very powerful emotion. Truth is, the guy probably had no intentions of marrying you to begin with if you two were on this merry-go-round for 6 years. He was probably feeling the way you did when you said there went so many years of your life, so why would you bail now. He also probably saw what his life would be like now that he was losing you and wouldn't have you strung along. I've had men cling to my feet for that simple reason. We all can't have lives like Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big. Now the ring issue is more of an ethical decision. If you wont't lose any sleep at night after you pawn that sucker and flip the profit toward a house, I say go for it. The guy knew what he was getting himself into before he started buying all sorts of ring. Now, on the other hand, the poor guy will probably have his credit score drug through the dirt. So, whatever you do, make sure he hears the words "you'll never do this crap to me again" and "goodbye." He'll learn! You are a very strong woman for putting up with all of that!

Good luck!
Jennifer

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cyndi33 Posts : 2,585 Registered: 1/3/07
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Posted: Jun 11, 2009 2:33 PM Go to message in response to: BlackstoneSkinner

ROTFLMAO, and welcome back Gin!!!

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kelleyiskelley Posts : 11,590 Registered: 7/2/06
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Posted: Jun 11, 2009 2:39 PM Go to message in response to: PharmToxGirl

Gin,that was priceless. You really should write for Hallmark LOL.

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MrsDeLouis Posts : 167 Registered: 11/10/08
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Posted: Jun 11, 2009 5:05 PM Go to message in response to: ginmal

Gin, absolute true poetry. That was great and I couldn't have said it better.

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aaronandlara Posts : 11 Registered: 4/28/09
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Posted: Jun 11, 2009 6:32 PM Go to message in response to: PharmToxGirl

I agree with all the other ladies. Give the ring back. You have no right taking a 4ct diamond ring from a man you are not going to marry and on top of that is unemployed. Just because he bought it does not mean you have to accept it. A 4 ct diamond ring is not a gift, it is an engagement ring!! Plain and simple. Give it back. You are ruining his credit just so you can sell and use the money for a house. SHAME ON YOU!! You are a terrible person.

He can legally sue for it!! The law is not on your side.

Actually this whole story kind of sounds like to me that you just stuck around to get a ring out of him. The whole scenario is so bizarre. I mean why would you stay with him for 6 years after all he has done. Why not dump him completely and move on? I do not think you love him because you want to ruin his credit now. You want revenge by keeping the ring. You are just a gold digger.

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Babilu Posts : 26 Registered: 9/9/08
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Posted: Jun 16, 2009 2:12 PM Go to message in response to: aaronandlara

AMEN! Took the words out of my mouth!
A woman with decency would give the ring back.

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JerseyGirlVA Posts : 311 Registered: 9/17/09
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Posted: Oct 15, 2009 2:31 PM Go to message in response to: ginmal

Although this thread is old, I couldn't help but read practically every post!
Gin, you said what all of us were thinking. Thank you!

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SoontobeMrsGlover Posts : 79 Registered: 9/14/09
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Posted: Oct 15, 2009 5:46 PM Go to message in response to: JerseyGirlVA

I'm right there with you JerseyGirl! I couldn't stop reading it.

Edited by: SoontobeMrsGlover on Oct 15, 2009 5:50 PM

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