So basically ive been married for 3months now and i have a MAJOR issue i do not know how to resolve. THis might be kinda long...so be prepared!
So my husband has a myspace (thats actually how we met) but since 1yr ago he NEVER gets on it. IT would jsut be me and all of a sudden this BEAUTIFUL girl messages him constantly out of no where!! Telling him how hot he was and hos ugly i was and that he deserved better and blah! bl;ah! i just thought it was sumwhat hilarious and went along with it( with my husbands knowledge)THis went on for aboout 5months and this girl got to the point of saying to leave me and i was a hoe, and talking all this crap so i finally decided..ima put an end to this and just ignored her. well 2months before our wedding my sister tell me WE NEED TO TALK FAST!!!
She tells me this beautiful girl messg her saying that my fiance (at the time") had cheated on me w/his ex. I confront him instantyl and he denys everything!! I call the ex and it was almost as if she was expecting my phone call and she automatically goes into saying how could you be with such a dog ur so much better he cheated with me! i think he's secretly in love with me and alot more stuff. so i went to speak w/his mother and she assured me that he was DOIN MISERABLE! and that his ex meant nothing ot him and i was his everything and was determined to get me back and to convince me it was all A LIE!! So i guess it worked cuz i ended marrying him. But its been miserable all i can do is think that he was with another woman. So one day i decided u know wat i need to forgive them both for what theyve done and maybe that will help me cope with the pain. So i tell her " u know waht , ur not my friend or enemy i just dont want to live this way anymore so i forgive you both" and she was all happy and saying she was glad to be friend again
so a couple days later i decide to log into his myspace and theres "the beautiful girl again" she says i know ur married but does that even matter? do u even care? u know she's a hoe" and on an d on and im like wtf?? so i decide ok ima go along with it this cuz it seems like there is something more so this goes on for a month until finally saturday i FOUND OUT IT WAS HIS EX!!! She had made this fake myspace!! And made EVERYTHING UP!!! IT WAS ALL a lie!!!!!
Nothing had ever happend! She was just trying to get back at him for leaving her (because right before we got together he was with her and left her unexpectedly)! I could not believe she could do this to me AFTER I HAD FORGIVEN HER FOR THE SUPOOSEDLY "CHEATING"!! So i write her and say you know waht? i have proof now that it was you (cuzi found the REAL BEAUTFUL GIRL AND SHE lives in Cali and WE live IN FL) AND I JUST WANT TO LET YOU know that its a real sad thing to try tobreak a blessed marrriage and then to blame evrything on my husband and make ti seem as if he's a cheater and she's the good girl. i also told her to please respect our marriage and stay out of it an di will do the same. She writes back "if i wanted your man to marry me all i had to do was f$ck him the WAY YOU DID!! Omg i could not beleive it! I spent all last night crying my eyes out becauseEVERY1 thinks im STUPID FOR marrying my husbad AFTER HE CHEATED ON ME! and now its all A LIE! I FEEL horrible! Hes been very supportive but I DONT KNOW HOW TO GET HER OUT OF MY LIFE! I asked her if we could please meet up to settle this and all she does is keeps bringin him up and calling me dirtynames. I have neverin my life done anything so horrible to someone and cant comprehend why would someone try to rip our marriage apart. We weremarried in a catholic church and have gods blessing but i feel as though any minurte this girl is goin to do anthing to ruin me! Plz help i dont know what i can do to make the situation better!
