Just keep in mind that this ring is one that you will wear on your finger and have to look at for the rest of your life. You didn't pick your husband because of what you thought other people would think, did you? ;) Remind him of that if he ever gets unsure again! I'm glad it sounds like you found a happy solution! Take it from a girl who has gone through 12 e-rings to find the right one - it's worth it!