I've known many young women (my daughter, now married, was among them) who have canceled weddings, usually for very good reasons. the last one I heard about was, believe it or not, about two hours ago! And then there are those (50% of the population!) who gone through divorce after the fact (including me, a long time ago). Advice--not a lot. You will go through a grieving process, and it will get better--trust me on this one. And, when you're ready, you will move on, and you'll be stronger and smarter the next time around. Let's hope that you have a good support system--family, friends, colleagues. They will help you. Even if you don't, try not to sit home and obsess.Find something that really interests you--a class, a sport, a hobby, an interest group--and use that as a way toward a new beginning. Very best to you.
myra at www.classysassyweddings.com
Message was edited by myra on May 28, 2007 9:27 PM